I need a VERY good way to ask her quick because i want to ask her myself before my friend blabs. I really really really like her and im 90% sure that she likes me and were both christain and were both freshmen and she's in my ROTC class and she's in my world history class and i need a REALLY good way to ask her out myself before my friend blabs because im only 90% sure that she likes me. and just in cause ur wondering because of the whole % thing, IM NOT A NERD, IM A KEWL KID.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 13:51:40 · 15 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're really sure that she likes you, take a chance! just tell her how you feel and that you want to know if she would like to go out with you. trust me, if you think she likes you she's either playing you or she really likes you so try. otherwise you'll be really mad at yourself if your friend lets the info get out. good luck!
2006-08-17 13:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by emilyy40193x3babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start it slow. just say hi, introduce, and get to know her a bit. Don't ask her flat out. Then..continue...if she is taken, fine! wait...build up how she thinks of you. And if she dumps b.f., move in. Just pull her aside like durin' lunch or something or after a class and say how much you love her and ask if she wants to go out with you. If she says teh big no, then...continue to be her friend, and look for somebody else. There is nothing you can do after that, unless you live in a chick flick. XD Oh, yeh! while you are building how she thinks of you, do not make fun of people or taunt, humiliate, or disgrace people, such as nerdy dudes or just dorks. that's a turn-on unless the girls' a brat, which i hope not...o well good luck, and i hope you get her!
...and people call me a nerd. HA! please...
oh yea! one more thing! don't send her letters, notes, winks, teddy bears, roses, w/e. Life is not a movie. Life is life. no dramatic cr@p. Just tell her. TELL her. Not email. TELL!!! And seem confidant. That's what most girls like. Most girls like a man/boy that tells them what they think, not what they want them to think.
2006-08-17 21:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cooool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal to be nervous about asking someone "out" that you admire. Just remember, if you know she likes you...which, I believe she does...she will be feeling just as nervous. "Anything" you say (that later on you may kick yourself for) she will adore - so don't make this harder than it is. Be sincere...be yourself... don't plan what you're going to say...and look at her in the eyes - hold her attention - you will learn something about her. After that, she will have no doubt that you mean what you say. P.S, Don't give her your phone number...ask her for her phone number instead, hold it to your heart and say "I will call you. Thank you." (Remember...don't take your eyes off her!)
2006-08-17 21:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by vintage_davinci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, SLOW DOWN bro! My experience says to ask her in person no matter what. Don't call, don't write a letter, or any of that foolishness. Just ask her and be confident. Be confident. Be confident. Everything will fall into place.
Don't worry about your friend. I doubt they will have any sort of effect on this girl's opinion of you.
2006-08-17 21:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by pisces7497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cute about it.. just go up to her and give her a cute teddy bear and have a note card that says something that you really like about her and ask her out.. and when she says well I barely know you, be like that is why I would like to date you because I want to get to know you... I mean that is what dating is all about... dating is about getting to know the person you like more!!
2006-08-17 20:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Gales Baby Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a girl-- we LOVE when you call us =]
get her number from a friend or leave a message in her locker. the second one is more romantic btw. ask her if she's interested in a new movie ((name the movie haha)). she'll totally dig it â¥
2006-08-17 20:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Ty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take It from me just be your self and make conversation with here.
2006-08-17 20:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by mzlynn_111105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first call her at a beach tell her to wear a bikini tell her shes hot go in a room touch her body hug her ,kiss and tell her i love you
2006-08-17 21:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a note
2006-08-17 21:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and ask her out....It's as simple as that...But ask her out in person...no letters...no phones....just ask her out...
Good Luck! :)
2006-08-17 20:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Me8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋