is this abuse?
my mom is really nice to everyone but me.She yells at the top of her lungs and curses for hours. I can never comment or fight back because i just want to end our fighting. I cry for hours. She also says i need to get in shape and i have a stomach. I am 5 feet 3 inches and 95 pounds. My therapists said she needs anger management. What do you think?
2006-08-17 13:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is very wrong for your mother to be verbally abusing you about your weight, because you could even stand to gain some, especially at that height. It really depends on what your mother is yelling at you about, is she yelling at you for a good reason?But I'm assuming that she's not by the sound of how she treats you with your weight. So yes, it is very much called abuse. I hope things get better for you.
2006-08-17 14:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your going to a pretty good therapist. Your mother certainly would benefit from some sort of anger training. Hopefully she is just going through a phase and will be back on track shortly. Good luck to you.
2006-08-17 13:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is abuse and your mom does have an anger problem. Can your therapist speak to her? You should not have to put up with that behavior.
Good luck to you and ask your therapist for help.
2006-08-21 05:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is abuse. I think she needs anger management too. She doesn't seem like she likes herself very much and just takes it out on you. I'm so sorry.
2006-08-17 13:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, UR FRICKIN SKINNY HUNNY!!! YOU NEED TO GET OUT FAST!! atleast get out for a little while, maybe your mom will get the hint and she'll notice what she's missing by fighting all the time... sounds like ur mom needs go grow up adn calm down
2006-08-17 13:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really needs anger management, due to her abusive ways.
2006-08-17 13:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by annagarcia1992@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does need anger managment...call the child abuse hotline in your area or the non-emergency police line and ask...
2006-08-18 12:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom does need therapy. if she makes you cry for long periods of time you should go to another person like your therapist. hopefully everything gets better for you soon.
2006-08-17 14:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask your therapist if this is abuse in your state and who to notify about it. Then your therapist can send your mom the bill.
2006-08-17 13:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Picture Taker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has issues with you and just you. Get family counseling with her. Seek assistance or opinion from other siblings or your father if you have.
2006-08-17 13:41:57 · answer #10 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋