2006-08-17 12:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by wyldmntgyrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you to change. Get a job. You shouldnt want someone else to take care of you.
2006-08-17 12:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup he is using u for 1) he traets u like an object (and i believe that all women should b against that and if ur not u should be)
2) if hes not willing to take care of u then why should u haev to take care of him in ways that id rather not mention!!
3) if he loved u then he would WANT to support u!!(unless teh problem is u have no job!!
and last bu tnot LEAST 4) y are u even asking this ? what do u think i think that u should just use ur better judgement anyone with ne common sence would no that theywere being used! no offence but u or ne other women deserves to be treated good and respected and it doesnt look like ur getting ne of that with this man!!! i wish u the best of luck!! :)
2006-08-17 12:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wildmountaingirl I am so sorry to say yes, you are being used. If he is tired of taking care of you, then Honey get along with yourself and take care of yourself. He may change his tune at a later time, but so what if he does? If he really loved you, he would never say something so hurtful to you. He would say something like, honey, I need help with the bills, could you get a job? Or maybe, Honey I can't do this alone, can you help out? You need to get on with your young life and let him get on with his. Sorry baby, I know it hurts, especially when you probably love the big lug. Good luck. Nana
2006-08-17 12:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do i say this gently cause your feelings are involved. HMMMMMM uhhhhh yes your yesterdays milk hes out looking if he doesn't like you turn off the KITTY and find some place else to live. Personally i think hes an a@# H*&% if he said that and still want the sugar. I would call that an abuseive relationship.
Signed Tim
2006-08-17 12:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by ssshoebox67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. Time to move on and get a man who would love to take care of you.
2006-08-17 12:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know it has not been any picnic putting up with him for so long. Remind him that farmers have to give food to the livestock and also give nourishment to the crops to get something from them and if he wants anything from you he better play the farmer and put out more and complain less. He has the impression You owe him instead of it being his task to care for you in exchange for services rendered.
2006-08-17 12:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean he's tired of taking care of you but he doesn't want you to move out?....Well that means he only wants sex and he wants you to get a job so you'll have your own money to spend and not his. He might also want help with the bills.
2006-08-17 12:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not being used maybe controlled he's calling all the shots but if he's tired of taking care of you but wants you to stay with him then thats lamens term for get a job and help me out around here thats all.
2006-08-17 12:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not being used...He is. He doesn't want you to leave because he cares but he does want you to get off your A S S and get a job.
2006-08-17 12:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he loves you but feels overburdened with obligations and responsibilities. You could ease the pressure on him by offering to take on a few chores that he had been doing. I hope this helps!
2006-08-17 12:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋