i want a boyfriend who lives in colorado so boys contact me plese
2006-08-17 12:09:51 · 39 answers · asked by lizzie s 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Your in middle school what's the harm in waiting a few years and enjoy whats left of your childhood... or teenage days.. you can't get those back. One day when all the cards are in your favor and you've achieved a good amount of goals then you can worry about a boyfriend... but hey I'm just making a suggestion that's all.
2006-08-17 12:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lizzie....When I was in middle school I had trouble with boys too. Then I got a bit older and things changed for me. I know that's not the answer you're looking for! Just be yourself and the right boy will come along. The best things happen when you're not looking for them! Try to concentrate on getting a solid education....you have so much time in the future to worry about boys! Before you know it boys will be pounding your door down, and you'll have so many boys after you that you'll go crazy!! Just slow down and enjoy being young! I wish I had done that. I'm sure you're very pretty...sometimes boys at that age are intimidated or scared by the pretty ones like you! So don't get down on yourself! Just be confident in who you are and that will attract the right people in your life. Good luck Lizzie! And remember what I said about school. Your education is the one thing that can never be taken away from you.
2006-08-17 12:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend in middle school. You need a good base of friends who like to do some of the same things you are interested in. Later, this may lead to some pairing up, but the important part is finding similar interests, getting connected, and be your best self.
Remember, a nice smile and good hygiene go a long way too.
2006-08-17 12:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by abracadabragal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant just think "just cause I'm pretty boys are gonna like me". You have to find someone who has the same interests as you, in your AGE level (not some freaky "17" year old u met on the internet) If your really shy around boys, its gonna be really hard for you to talk to them but you have to build up courage to do it. And please, dont want to have a bf just cause everyone else has one. I remember when i was in 5th grade and a lot of kids were "going out" and i didnt even know what that meant but all i remember is always wanting to go out with someone. A lot of guys are going to be out of your league if your one of those really smart, studious girls becuase guys are so immature in middle school! Guys are still immature in high school!!! My advice: skip the whole bf thing, make friends (they last longer), and study hard in school. There is way too much drama involved, too just watch laguna beach!
2006-08-17 12:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by KassieB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in school. The best thing for you right now is not to have a boyfriend, honestly hun, believe me. I have had bfs all throughout school but I now know i would have done better had I not had one. I am not just some older lady who forgets what it is like to be in middle school, I am stilll only 18. You will remember this advice when you graduate, and probably realize i am right, but as for you not being able to get a guy, just know that guys are not matured completly like females are in middle school, wait until high school, you will have better luck There!
2006-08-20 23:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Alexa's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in a such a rush to have a boyfriend? You are still so young to even be worrying about that. You should be concentrating on school and just hanging out with friends. It sounds like you are puttin gto much pressure on yourself. Don't rush into anything. Take your time and wait for it to happen naturally. It will happen eventually.
2006-08-17 12:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by ghostlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These kind of issue cannot be rushed. Take things one thing at a time. Enjoy your freedom now. You're still young and many more years to come and start dating. Enjoy mixing with boys and girls your age. Don't act desperate as men can sense you're desperate and once they know about this, they flee from you!
2006-08-17 12:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys in middle school are immature, little idiots. You won't find a normal boyfriend until you are in college...and even THEN.. men suck..........and any girls that you see that DO have boyfriends.............. do not be jealous........they will suffer through a broken heart veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy soon. It's the way of life.
2006-08-17 12:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nice too? Don't worry about getting a boyfriend. Worry about doing well in school and having good friends, girls and boys. Dating is over rated.
2006-08-17 12:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in middle school, for Chist sake! What are you going to do? Ask your mommy if she'll drive you to the playground for your dates? You have plenty of years ahead of you to date and have boyfriends. Enjoy your youth, it goes by so quickly!
2006-08-17 12:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by April M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋