i am 13 and my mom doesn't let me date
i have a boyfriend and he said "i love you" and i don't know what to do because i really like him and i don't want to hurt him but my mom is really strict and i don't know if i should break up with him and obey my mom or stay with him?
2006-08-17 11:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by ginagab@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a kid you may not want to listen to her AT ALL. But listen to me don't have sex with this boy no matter how much he tells you he loves you. Save you innocence. Its precious!! But as far as dating this boy thats fine. Your mother is scared for you because she feels he will mislead you and you may have sex but show her she can trust you. Listen to her she is only looking out for your virginity and safety. She love you so much. Try ot understand that. I learned this long time ago, I learned that If I had of listened to my mom about things my life would have been MUCH more easier. Trust her then she can trust you.
Now you like him alot and age cannot define love. We feel love as a baby but Don't let this guy or anyguy mislead you into something you dont feel comfortable doing. This is soooo important that you understand what I am saying. You life will be so much easier. Pray and thank god everyday.
They say there will be many more men coming into you life but learn from your mistakes and if it doesn't work with this guy learn from the problem that caused the problem.
2006-08-17 11:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then even though it is very hard, you should probably just break up with him. Even though it doesnt seem like it now, you will meet other guys later in life. And when you do, your mom will look back on how responsible you are, and she will let you go out with other guys. And if your boy is still there, then, if he is the one for you then he will understand and you will get together! And your mom will trust you!!!! Dont you dare make the same mistake that i did!!! (By hiding it) IT ISNT WORTH IT!!!!! And when you find another guy you wont be able to go out with him!!
-hope i helped!!
2006-08-17 19:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by crazychik17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with your mom, and maybe he could come over to diner. Also boys will say anything to get in your pants. It is the truth. They don't even differ from this when they get older. You must be careful. Don't even bother having sex until you are married either it is just not worth it. I think your mom would agree to have him over for diner if you could make a pact with her not to have sex before you are married, talk to her.
2006-08-17 18:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would continue to date him but just not tell your parents. If you guys go out to a movie, just make it a group thing with your friends and tell your mom your going to a movie with your friends but sit by your boyfriend. And if you have a cell phone, just tell him to call your cell phone instead of your home phone and talk to him on the computer and anywhere you can, just dont tell your parents.
2006-08-17 18:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide if dating him is worth the risk of the hell your mom may put you in if she catches you!
You are pretty young, and she still controls your world (driving you places, buying stuff for you...), so I would think about that kind of stuff.
2006-08-17 18:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't know what love really is until about 22
2006-08-17 18:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mum knows best
2006-08-17 18:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
secretly date him
2006-08-17 18:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by im so fly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋