women do you really like to have men go down on you? i love to do that myself but i've noticed not every likes that... can you help me out here?
2006-08-17 11:44:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a wonderful thing, if you do it right and if the lady is not preoccupied with taste, smell, looks. You can always make her feel better if you like doing it and show it.
2006-08-17 12:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by applejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said yourself, not every woman likes that, for various reasons. Some can't imagine that a guy would actually like it for the act and not the response, like me for example, and so they don't feel comfortable with a guy going down on them because they feel like you are doing it not because you want to but because you want them to feel good. Some women don't like the idea of a mouth on their muffs, they think it is a dirty place or they think that it is not a "nice" thing to do. Some women worry that they might taste/smell bad and so are uncomfortable about it. Try to assure the girl that you really DO like it for what it is, and try to explain why, maybe that can help them relax and be more open to letting it happen. It can be a mighty good thing, since all orgasms come from clitoral stimulation (either direct or indirect, but the former most often) this is a pretty sure bet that if you go for it you can give her a LOT of pleasure.
2006-08-17 11:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, I have only been with two girls EVER that didn't like it. One was when I was a teen, and so was she. The other one turned out to have a lot of issues about sex, and that was one of them. Neither would go down on me either. All the others liked it, loved it, or would rather have that than intercourse. Many of them wouldn't have intercourse without that first, and that was the only way they could get off.
2006-08-17 12:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Average John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women like that. Some might be paranoid about the taste, or smell. Best thing is to feel someone out about stuff like that before you get hot and heavy...
2006-08-17 11:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Peach Tree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what you r doing then any woman would love for a man to go down, it's very pleasing
2006-08-17 11:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by msknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a lot easier to come from clitoral stimulation than it is from intercourse. Most women cannot even have an orgasm from vaginal stimulation. Really, why is this so hard for men to grasp?
2006-08-17 11:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Erin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey! i love it! but you have to be careful and do it properly otherwse i rather they dont cause it can be a pain in the *** if the guy doesnt know how to...or does it too hard or too slow..there´s some places where you MUST touch if you want us to be satisfied
2006-08-17 12:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS go down on a girl, the onl;y reason she says she doesnt like its because shes insercure, have no worrys shes cummin!!!
2006-08-17 11:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by jamaicanstar1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a sleeve for your tongue?One that would stay on (i.e. like a condom)
Then I would consider it
Germ-a-phob/+ a lot of throat infections
2006-08-17 12:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by croshow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if my guy would even give me oral Id be a happy camper.. im like shaved all the time and everything!!!!!...but no...someone only likes to receive it and not give it....
i think im getting the shallow end of this dream pool.
2006-08-17 11:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋