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I got some stupid e-mail from this asshole who got pissed off about my question about not being able to drink water on delayed flights ahd while waiting in line for a plane due to new TSA regs. He called me some names I can't repeat here, and he wanted to know what I've done for my country? And that he'll show me what "being dehydrated" feels like!!!!! WTH? I ask one simple question, and I get attacked because he ASSUMED I've never been in the military and because he has, he is better than me or something??? I have the utmost respect for people who fight for our country. But I went to college instead. And I am a Psychologist who helps children who were sexually molested. So that makes me the bad guy instead???? Some of you "militant" military people really need to take a chill pill. This was no personal attack against you, and if you think it was, PLEASE get yourself into some Post Traumatic Stress Disorder counseling immediately!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-17 11:26:00 · 12 answers · asked by joe s 2 in Politics & Government Military

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Yeah, I've answered questions like this before and I'm not really sure what to tell you except don't take it personally. Going into the military doesn't mean you can't still be stupid. I was in the Army and I knew a lot of goons in my regiment and going through basic doesn't make someone a hero. I went into the Army because I was a grown up and made that choice for myself, not because I was looking for pats on the back like some kid at a talent show. I didn't want people to oppose me for my decision but neither did I expect them to bend over and kiss my butt either. Frankly, my paycheck and help with college was all the thanks I was looking for, thank you very much. There are plenty of Americans who are a vital and valuable part of our society like teachers, doctors and accountants, I don't see people patting them on the back.

2006-08-17 11:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by bluenote2k 2 · 3 0

I would really doubt that anyone in the Military believe themselves to be a "God". I myself have the utmost respect for anyone who joins the military. They are "out there" protecting us ! I would think he may have thought that here you are, complaining about not having drinking water with you while on a plane, when he was God knows where and went through God knows what...So his reaction was basically, quit your crying about not having a water bottle on the plane with you when I had NO water at all. I wouldn't take it personally though..You just may have hit a nerve with him...He may have had a tough go at it. And those who never served, have no clue what they experience and may find it difficult to understand where they are coming from. That's not to say they can be excused from anything and everything but I would give this guy a pass...? after all, you are a psychologist, right?

2006-08-17 13:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by 2179 4 · 1 1

First of all, If I were to say, call psychologist's just a bunch of quacks who think they are doctor's, you'd be upset, would you not? You'd most likely have something rude to say back to me. As a psychologist, you should understand the term generalizations so, don't make generalizations on the "military" based on one individual's remarks. Perhaps you said something that was very personal to him/her. I would apologize for saying something that offended them, and move on. Secondly, most military members serve thier country to make money for college, so, don't think you are better just because you had the parents who could put you through college. That is my two cents about your ordeal. Good luck in the future.

2006-08-17 11:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ca-C 3 · 2 0

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2016-11-05 01:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by seelye 4 · 0 0

The reason he got mad at you is probably because you are a mouthy little s*** and made an issue out of the situation because you think you are the most important creature on this earth
So go away and get a grip of yourself you horrid little man
Regards a Military God

2006-08-17 13:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by mkayling 2 · 1 0

Your right you have pissed me off. You were whining about your water and got rightfully chastised for it. Now you are continuing to be a thoughtless smartass with insulting question like this. Being in the military does not make one a God. However it does make one a better person. So I suggest you take the chill pill and go back to your cushy office playing with kids. Then think about what real sacrifice is......

2006-08-17 11:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by lana_sands 7 · 2 2

I know alot of Doctor's and Lawyer's,and Police Officers too that need a chill pill.....People are stressed about a few planes going down,and I am sure All the employees were feeling the heat to insure they would not be the blame for an explosive to go off. Do you know how many times they probably got bitched at from people for not getting to carry a drink,or having to throw away toothpaste? I mean I would be a little upset too if I kept getting lip all week from passengers. I have a hard time believing he just attacked you out of nowhere though. I am sorry you had an encounter like that if he was indeed just a ***,but I have met alot of them,and most are Non Military. I am a PROUD Military WIFE,I support the Troops,But NOT BUSH!

All the way through it says "him" but don't forget "Her" too....

Your alarm goes off; you hit the snooze and sleep for another 10 minutes.
He stays up for days on end.
-- --
You take a warm shower to help you wake up.
He goes days or weeks without running water.
-- --
You complain of a "headache", and call in sick.
He gets shot at, as others are hit, and keeps moving forward.
-- --
You put on your anti war/"don't support the troops" shirt, and go meet up with your friends.
He still fights for your right to wear that shirt.
-- --
You make sure your cell phone is in your pocket.
He clutches the cross hanging on his chain next to his dog tags.
-- --
You talk trash on your "buddies" that aren't with you.
He knows he may not see some of his buddies again.
-- --
You walk down the beach, staring at all the pretty girls.
He walks the streets, searching for insurgents and terrorists.
-- --
You complain about how hot it is.
He wears his heavy gear, not daring to take off his helmet to wipe his brow.
-- --
You go out to lunch, and complain because the restaurant got your order wrong.
He does not get to eat today.
-- --
Your maid makes your bed and washes your clothes.
He wears the same things for months, but makes sure his weapons are clean.
-- --
You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He doesn't have time to brush his teeth today.
-- --
You are angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
He is told he will be held an extra 2 months.
----
You call your girlfriend and set a date for that night.
He waits for the mail to see if there is a letter from home.
-- --
You hug and kiss your girlfriend, like you do everyday.
He holds his letter close and smells his love's perfume.
-- --
You roll your eyes as a baby cries.
He gets a letter with pictures of his new child, and wonders if they'll ever meet.
-- --
You criticize your government, and say that war never solves anything.
He sees the innocent tortured and killed by their own government and remembers why he is fighting.
-- --
You hear the jokes about the war, and make fun of the men like him.
He hears the gun fire and bombs.
-- --
You see only what the media wants you to see.
He sees the bodies lying around him.
-- --
You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don't.
He does what he is told.
-- --
You stay at home and watch TV.
He takes whatever time he is given to call and write home, sleep, and eat.
-- --
You crawl into your bed, with down pillows, and try to get comfortable.
He crawls under a tank for shade and a 5 minute nap, only to be woken by gun fire.
-- --
You sit there and judge him, saying the world is a worse place because of men like him. If only there were more men like him

2006-08-17 16:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 3 · 2 1

My God who is the hostile person here?Maybe you need help or a Psychologist. Since your going to stereo type the Military here's one for you. People who become a Psychologist,generally are trying to find out what is wrong with themselves,they are the nut cases<<<

2006-08-17 11:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

war is irrational. combatants participate in that context.

don't take it personally, you were likely just in the wrong place at the wrong time. next to someone p-ed off that our whole country isn't 'at war' alongside our soldiers.

that's a leadership failure of course that goes all the way to the top of our military and civilian leadership.

2006-08-17 11:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by emptiedfull 3 · 2 0

If you are a psychologist I don't think your remark about PTSD was very professional. Not all vets with PTSD are going to attack you like that. As a matter of fact most of them I know are very respectful.

2006-08-17 11:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Stand 4 somthing Please! 6 · 2 2

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