Well you see he had a girlfriend and he is really hurt by it and all i could do was hold him laswt night when he came here and i told him that he needs to be strong and that i will always behere for him..... Like right know he is laying on my lap crying cuz he loves her so much!!!! Can you please help me!!!!!
2006-08-17 11:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by S W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just be the soft place he can land on when he falls. Time will heal his wounds, just let him cry if he needs to. Try not to let him wallow in self-pity though, as is often the case when you break up. The other person is constantly on the mind and it's pretty easy to mope around and not get on with your life. Try to let him know that it will get better with time, and to just trust in that. Also, tell him that you will always love him, no matter what and you are here. Sorry he's hurting so bad, and sorry you feel weird.
2006-08-17 11:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing for heartbreak, i'm really sorry, i think the best way to help is to distract him until the hurt goes away. i've been heart broken so many times its unbelievable that i am still standing. just try and support him, if he wants to talk let him, if he doesnt, dont push it until he is ready, it will just make it harder sometimes. its hard to pick yourself up after taking a fall like that, im really sorry, but you will get over this, and you will love again.
2006-08-17 11:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened?
Maybe they need to sit down and talk this out especially if he really does love her and vise versa. Just think things happen for a reason and he will find someone better but it will take time to heal his wounds. It's great your being there for him, just keep telling him it will work out for the better and to stay strong.
Take care.
2006-08-17 11:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by speedracer54348066 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him maybe she wasn't the one cuz she broke up with him. It's ok to hurt but it shouldn't drag on too long cuz it would be no use. Try to take him somewhere to have fun and try to get his mind off of the breakup.
2006-08-17 11:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry this is one of those things that only time will heal. Take him out for some ice creame and hang out, dont let him stay home alone to sulk in it.
2006-08-17 11:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by admyr75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is not the one for him, and he needs to get himself busy like with work or school or such and understand that one day he will find someone better suited for himself
2006-08-17 11:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by malfunction_r@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋