Guys, how do you act when you're hanging out with a friend and see a pretty girl?

Question

If one of you points it out, do you guys just glance at the girl or blatantly stare at her?

Also, can someone answer me this--I noticed this guy glancing at me and afterwards he whispered to his friend. Then when I looked up again, I saw his friend staring at me while grinning. I'm just wondering why he would grin because I don't get what would be so amusing. I'm just feeling a little paranoid because if someone thinks someone is pretty, I would think they'd only glance and not find anything funny about it. :p

Anything about this subject from a guy's point of view would be helpful for understanding stuff better. :)

So what do guys say to each other if they think a girl is ugly? I always thought they just ignored ugly girls.

Answer 1

Well, if I was with my male friends. I would probably just glance. Staring would be pretty creepy and the girl would notice. I am not sure what that guy said to his friend about you. Maybe the guy told his friend that you are cute or something. His friend could be laughing for a number of reasons..and maybe not necessarily about you...maybe his friend is laughing because the guy didn't have the nerve to approach you.

Don't worry. Just relax. If either of them approaches you..you can deal with it then.

Addendum: In response to your question, I don't bother to tell my guy friends if I think a girl is ugly. Don't worry, I am sure they thought you were attractive.

Answer 2

Well as a Guy age depends on how a man acts on what he see's little boys at night clubs are like teenage girls in high school snickering and whispers.

Hence if i see you and i like you and we make eye contact I'm going to walk across the floor to talk to you rather than look at the one that got away.

I will say this night clubs don't work for me to be honest i met a lot of women at the grocery store and less nervous if you approach them with a question

As for your follow up question us guys think of only 1 thing and adapt it to everything else is it important what the loss er said and what his friend was grinning about. remember this you went to a club to meet a man not a little boy.

Signed Tim

Answer 3

Dude these guys were talking either about how good you were in bed, if you have not slept with them they are talking about how hot you are, and if youre not hot they are probably talking about how funny or ugly you are. Point blank, this is what us guys talk about if we are whispering to our friends then smiling at you in a sneaky way. Oh if you have a nice butt, they could have been talking about how they would like to hit that. These are the most likely things they were talking about.

Answer 4

well i glance, and probably the one guy either said one of two things
#1 he made a dirty *** comment that he wouldnt be man enough to say to ur face

-or-

#2 u reminded him of someone (an ex, a friend) that has a bad rep or something

God Bless
LusTlesS

Answer 5

THE BOSS HAVE SPOKEN
those guy's that look at u and grinn are shy/gay. they are too scared to step to a pretty lady trust me i got friends that do that all the time " whisper something like ill hit that" and i call them gay for letting a fine girl go by

Answer 6

I prefer the "go Bonkers" approach. Stare, point, make funny noises, jump up and down and usually end by wetting myself. I wonder why I never get the chicks.

Answer 7

depends.... if she is with another guy then i look @ her up and down one time then i look@ her dood and that is it until she passes. then i will look @ her azz if it look cool. But if she is alone or with her friends then i will look @ her like a piece of meat. If she gives me a sign that its coo.....then i will step and close the deal.
If guys are smiling then they are gay or have no swagger and the only way to show that they are interested is to smile and laugh which is gay

Answer 8

most try not to be noticed.
it usually starts out like this
guy: dam look at her
friend: uh hu...
guy: would you hit that?
friend: hell yeah!
guy: me too.
friend: i think she knows we're talking about her.

that comes accross all mens mind when they first meet a women the question "would i?"

if his friends look, hes really just looking for encouragment to go talk to her.

hope this helps

Answer 9

I think Joe Snow summed it up very well.....short and to the point......

Answer 10

nothing, im shy. I guess that guy that glaced at you is shy too =P try and talk to him...