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i have this guy fren who is in jail for beating up some guy while he was drunk. and his gf is going out on him while he is in jail. and all "the frenz" feel bad for him. but nobody wants to tell him either because he actually really loves his gf and heard about her going out on him before and he did nothing and acted like it didn't matter. do u think it would be ok if one of us tell him that she's going out on him again?

2006-08-17 11:12:59 · 27 answers · asked by softball_girl 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

Mind your business on this one.If you told him before and he did nothing,chances are he will do it again.Just sit back and relax,he will come to his senses sooner than later and let her go.Your a great friend to be concerned,but sometimes you just have to let people learn from their mistakes.Ive been in your situation before!

2006-08-17 11:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you feel the need to tell him, then I guess go for it. But, if he didn't care last time, then I doubt he would care this time. Telling him might make it worse for him - since he is in jail and can't do anything about it. Instead, why not try to make his time in there at least tolerable - take him things he needs/wants and let him deal with his gf when he gets out. I'm sure he's smart enough to figure out whats been going on with her.

2006-08-17 11:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0 0

Be a friend and tell him. Then be there for him when he needs it. This guy doesn't need to keep on suffering at the hands of a cheating gf.

2006-08-17 11:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0 0

Fren is friend?

Frenz is friends?

And going on on him means cheating?

2006-08-17 11:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0 0

if you are really his friend, then go ahead and tell him. In this way he'll go mad and calm down after sometime if he really wants to, and he wouldn't be able to do anything to harm anyone.

When he eventually gets out, he would have gotten over it and pursue a different and most likely better life.

But be careful, if you aint sure of what you are about to do, if you can't predict his reaction.

2006-08-17 11:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by CPR 2 · 0 0

he sounds like he has both a drinking problem and a temper problem. I wouldnt want to be the one to tell him, id keep my nose out of his business. If he knows how she is, and doesnt seem to care, leave well enough alone, he will find out eventually anyway.

2006-08-17 11:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0 0

If you or your friends really loved him, then you would tell him, cuz it's much better for you to tell him, then for him to have to catch his girlfriend in the act. If you don't tell him, he'll still eventually find out, and he'll be mad at you for not telling him, so just tell him!

2006-08-17 11:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by pnogal32 2 · 0 0

He's in jail. He is not an active member of society anymore. Just leave him, he sounds like a jerk.

2006-08-17 11:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell him if you want but if he didnt care before I doubt he will care now. Dont forget to go to English class.

2006-08-17 11:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0 0

tell him he has the right to know, even better get proof my boy loki's girl cheated on him and i told him but i aint had no proof so he didnt beleive me so get some proof besides word of mouf and den show his azz
God Bless
LusTlesS

2006-08-17 11:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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