Please help me, I cant seem to get guys to like me or date me. Im a little chubby but pretty. Alot of guys say im cute but not for them to date. Im really sad because ever since i can remember i've always been the girl, guys are best friends with but never like in the way of romance wise. I've never dated and im giving up hope. Please help me understand why guys dont like me???
2006-08-17 11:04:49 · 14 answers · asked by Crystal D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really are a little chubby, and pretty, then you should be fine, there's plenty of attractive guys out there who dig that. More thick and curvey for a lot of guys is sexy. I think dating is actually more difficult for guys than for girls since we are usually the ones whoi have to approch you. Maybe you are hanging around the wrong kind of guys. Get yourself out there more for more guys to see you and want to approch you. Or maybe you should approach some yourself. But Trust me, there's good guys all over the place who are single, not bad looking at all, who wonder why they can't find a good girl for them. A lot of times it's because they aren't exposing themselves to more kinds of girls. Go to the right spot, and guys will be all about you.
I say this because I used to live in NY, and no girls wanted anthing to do with me. I moved to Houston TX, and all of a sudden, a lot of girls clearly wanted me. I was shocked at how much more attention you can get by just exposing yourself to other types of girls. You don't have to move to another state to meet the right guys, but just expose yourself to different crowds more and see what happens.
2006-08-17 11:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your only self-critique is "I'm a little chubby," then that's probably the problem. Trim down a bit, it might take a while, but you'll feel better about yourself.
When you have low self-esteem, it shows. Ask anybody what they like about a person, and most will answer "Confidence!"
If you don't have it, take the steps to get it! Work out, get strong, be patient, and you'll do fine.
2006-08-17 11:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by tonevault 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how chubby r u ? sounds like u need to drop some pounds and get confident . there is someone for everyone . dont let knock u down . carry urself proud and start working out . its hard work but you will be amazed what it will do for ur personal life . im not tring to be mean .just honest im a good looking guy and i date chubby girls at times but they have to be confident of themselves. .
2006-08-17 11:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try so hard to find the perfect one. let them come to you. If you have a great personality and men are looking past you cause of what you look like, then that is there loss. I used to think that guys didnt find me attractive until I met my husband now I fell prettier than ever!
2006-08-17 11:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you have got to keep trying there is someone out there for you. Don't settle for just anyone. See a guy you like ask him out. In this world of equal rights a woman can ask a man if they would like to go out on a date sometime. My late wife came out and say that she would go out on a date if I ever asked she got tried of waiting for me to make the first move. In this world of sexual harassment some of us men have been scared to ask women out just to keep from getting accused of anything wrong. So get out there keep looking have fun enjoy life and you will find that soul mate that you want.
2006-08-17 11:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by harrellberryhill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to self-confidence. If you appear to be confident, you will be attractive to men. If you appear to be emotionally needy and unsure of yourself, guys might want to be friends, but that's all. Unfortunatley, it's one of those things that is hard to change about yourself- it usually just comes with time. Anyway, if you stop worrying about it so much right now, it will actually make things better.
2006-08-17 11:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by W. Coastal Eddie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps draw attention to the "little chubby" area.Go on a diet.
2006-08-17 11:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want guys to date u ? try licking ur elbow,if u dont succeed u will never date.
2006-08-17 11:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by hunglow 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're a gray smiley face.
2006-08-17 11:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried Ban roll on???
2006-08-17 11:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋