He gave me a first promise ring,and I know in his past he has had other relationships where the girl lived with him,Iam hurt,he hasnt asked me,is he not serious,said he wasnt against marriage,but not with a girl he only has known for 6 weeks,I think he doesnt really care about me,cause he hasnt asked me to,and I spend 3-5 days a week aty his house already,Help!
2006-08-17 11:03:27 · 10 answers · asked by kgrl360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not want to ask a girl to move in with me until at least 6 months or more. You have not been together long enough for him to ask you to move in with him. Don't get hurt feelings, or get upset with him. It seems you are trying to rush into things way too fast. Take your time get to know him, let him get to know you. You still don't know a lot of things about each other and he needs to get to know you a lot better before he asks you to move in.
2006-08-17 11:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Travis L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey do you really want to move in with a guy that you've only known for 6 wks? Give it more time. Also I'll tell you it is better for your relationship in the long run. I've heard that if a couple move in together before they are married, they will be more likely to divorce, than a couple who has waited until they are married. Plus if he has done this before there may still be some hard feelings left over. So please don't be upset about it.
I'm sure he is serious,but please don't push or pressure him about it. You might push him away if you nag him about it.
2006-08-17 18:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong. Its just he don't want a woman living with him when he has been hurt in the past. He just wants to make sure that ur not going to up and leave him. Just give him a chance to trust you, and show u that u want to be with him but u are willing to wait to move in with him. That all u want to do is spend time with him. As for the getting married part just leave that up to him because if u push the issue your just going to run him off. Good luck
2006-08-17 18:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you crazy? What kind of clinging, needy person are you? Who the hell moves in with someone they have been dating for 6 weeks? Wow you must really know all about the person after 6 whole weeks (42 days). I'm surprised that you don't have children already.
2006-08-17 18:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worried about moving in after only 6 weeks..what's wrong with you. What's you're hurry. I didn't move in with my husband until after we were married. That was six years after we stared dating. You take this too fast you're going to be sorry. Get to know him better before you even consider moving in with him. People can change when they move in together and not necessarily for the better. Don't rush it
2006-08-17 18:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be worried if he did ask you!!! I've been with my guy 5 years and haven't received a ring yet. He's waited until he finished college, got a good job and saved up money to support us. Maybe your guy wants to be responsible and not hurry into the relationship.
2006-08-17 18:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing someone for only 6 weeks isn't enough to move in with him... you shouldn't be hurt that he hasn't asked you to move in yet... he might have learned from the former times that he moved in with a girl too soon and first wants to get to know you better... don't feel offended, take the time to get to know him well and then decide if YOU would actually WANT TO live with him...
2006-08-17 18:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are women in such a rush to push for a serious relationship?i promise if you push that on him this soon you will be an ex really fast.
2006-08-17 18:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into things...maybe he's not ready and you shouldn't rush him...it's always good to have your own space...moving in could ruin your relationship and maybe thats why he hasn't asked you.....6 weeks is real quick...give it afew more months
2006-08-17 18:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Bootylicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a hurry are you
2006-08-17 18:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by tattoo282001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋