i think maybe he married another women dat this stupid one can control him and his mind .. when ia sked him to go out with my friends he always say do what every u want and he don't look at my face .and don't wanna talk with me .. what can i do with him '?
2006-08-17 10:51:49 · 20 answers · asked by pink rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you're right about the married part, if so yes she can and will control him. seems like to me dad need a woman so bad, that he's willing to give up a loving daughter for a woman. if you ever see her tell her this, I WERE HIS DAUGHTER BEFORE YOU WERE HIS WIFE, or tell him this because when his but gets old. and need someone to take care of him he's going to be looking at you for this. and he better know it. i wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-17 11:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there is a lot more information I would need to give you some better advice. Like your age. Sometimes it is hard for dads to let go or for any man to show emotions and then they like to hide out in their cave and act like they don't care. If he is newlywed he might be a bit distracted of feels overwhelmed trying to balance two girls in his live. He might just don't know what to do to stay close to you. You appear to feel a bit hostile towards the new(?) wife, so that would put him into 9 uncomfortable situation. And most man do not deal with that very well. you might want to write him a letter letting him know that you still care about him and miss him participating in your life. But be warned about trying to "bash" stepmom Your Dad cares about her enough to marry her, So now it is up to you to make if work for all of you.
And I apologize if some of those answer come from assumption.
2006-08-17 11:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by sabina-2004@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that he seems to not show any interest in what you do. It is really important that you at least attempt to try and talk to him and tell him how you feel. You are his daughter, his own flesh and blood and you MUST be his top priority. No other woman is more important than you. Perhaps if you could talk to a councilor or psychologist about this, then they could get gradually try to get him involved too. It's sometimes easier if you have a third party who can stand by you and explain to him that the way he responds to you (or his lack of response) is really hurting you. And please, donn't do anything stupid to get his attention...just talk to him. Good luck.
2006-08-17 11:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is going through a rough time and I know you are too. The best thing you can do is try to talk with him but don't get angry. Tell him what you are feeling and express that you want him to care. He may not see what is going on, I think you are thinking he does not want you to be around. Don't think that way, I am very sure he does but he does not realize what is going on.
2006-08-18 07:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 01:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe in God and if so then pray for His help and then go talk to your Dad. Make sure it is just you and him at first and then maybe add his wife. Give his wife a chance and be nice to her and maybe you can make things better by you just having a good attitude with her.
2006-08-17 11:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best advice is to sit him down and talk to him i dont know why he doesnt look at you but when someone usually doesnt look you in the eye is because they feel pain something must be bothering him that its making him distance himself from you
you really need to talk to him.. dont let this go on any longer a relationship with you father is very important
2006-08-17 11:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by yaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh-this is sad, it's not often you see children asking for this type of help. I wish I could just hug you.
Maybe you can talk to him. He may not realize that he is hurting you. I can imagine it's very difficult for you. Tell him that, maybe he'll listen!
2006-08-17 10:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by dlfoster67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father left us for a complete psycho. I got the worst of her. She would scream at me and as he didn't know what to do, he would never back me up. This went on for years until he left her and she killed herself. When he was with her, I simply told him I wasn't going to see or speak to him until he left her. I took a while but he eventually realised her. I don't know if this will work for you but it seems you are at your wits end. Good Luck.
2006-08-17 11:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Series of ?'s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if he knows something you did wrong. Or is mad at you about something.
If he is only doing it cause of his new wife then he's not much of a dad anyways. I would just do what I want and forget him.
2006-08-17 11:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Questions&Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋