He smokes all the time but to much of my family have messed up there lives with weed and higher drugs he doesnt understand! How to i tell him. . .
2006-08-17 10:46:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"if you dont stop, i'm leaving you"
just like that.
leave him anyways. he wont stop for you, i will bet money on it.
2006-08-17 10:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, "Baby I feel like when you are smoking weed and around all those other drugs, you can be put in a situation you may not be ready for. I feel like that may lead to you accepting the drugs and maybe moving into heavier things. I care about you enough to lose you to a drug habit or even death, but not enough to say good bye to you if you don't straighten up." I hope it works out for you.
2006-08-17 10:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like some issues are occurring. If he's attracted to starches they turn to sugar even as they are digested and also you get a burst of ability and then you crash. people on those kinds of diets genuinely have an addiction situation. you may want to be dealing with that or if his mom turned right into a really controlling man or woman or father than he might want to have anerexia. adult men get this too. i might want to sit down back and lay off of him in both experience because your pushing him received't change this. If he's keen to work out a dr about this i might want to inspire that. per chance a nutricionist and a phychologist. lots of chemical transformations take position on a extreme sugar nutrition plan and with the weed it purely makes this worse. I had a daughter who became an analogous way and through counseling and a nutrionist we were waiting to get her to talk about issues and attempt new ingredients that genuinely gave her more beneficial ability and made her experience great. be affected man or woman and attempt now to not nag. Its the more severe element you could do it genuinely makes it worse. staggering needs
2016-11-05 01:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately no matter how many times you tell him to wise up you are not going to make much of a difference. Give him the cold shoulder and start hanging out with you're friends or family and make him feel that you don't care about what he does anymore no matter how much it hurts you not be around him, but he needs to grow up and know what's real important in his life. His addiction or people that care about him!
2006-08-17 11:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by onelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him to stop of you want. But if he hurts you in a way that does not feel right then tell him how you feel about him and what he should do to keep you as his girlfriend. But if he still doesn't listen then you should breakup with him until he gets what is going on in his life and then he would come right back to you if you still love him at the time.
2006-08-17 10:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u may just have to dump him,,..........now wait dont count me out yet, if u dump him either he will miss u enough to stop or say forget u, either way you'll have ur answer, dont waste years waiting for him to change. If u havent had a real heart to heart with him yet, this is the only way
2006-08-17 10:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an ex-smoker. Sometimes you just don't get it! If it bothers you that much, simply tell him as you wrote it before you make any furthur commitments.! My husband "tolerated" my smoking, but this January he told me "you know what, I really feel that if you get cancer, I won't be able to forgive you". That really got to me. I quit.
Good luck
2006-08-17 10:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that nothing in this world that you say will make him change. Either dump this asshole or stop complaining and whining.......you are an Enabler and you will end up at the bottom.
2006-08-17 10:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and give him an ultimatum. If he doesn't straighten out in a certain timeframe that you give him, then you need to move on.
2006-08-17 10:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Directly and honestly. Have the means to toss him out, or to leave and go elsewhere on your own. Say and mean it, and look him straight in the eye when you do. Don't bluff. If you've got nowhere to go, don't threaten to leave.
2006-08-17 10:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just tell him straight out...let him know you dig him and care about him, but you care about yourself also and where things might lead...
If you can't communicate, you don't have much of a relationship anyway...so get talkin'!
2006-08-17 10:53:58 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋