Is it wrong to have a "strictly" booty call partner if you are in a relationship with some one else that doesn't know about it?... even if it started befor you met each other?
2006-08-17 10:40:45 · 83 answers · asked by kssunflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not in a current relationship... i'm just asking if I should continue or stop when I find a guy.
2006-08-17 10:56:43 · update #1
keep your booty call
better yet
keep your booty call to yourself
f**k what others think
we live in country where every pot loves to call the kettle black
do your thang
2006-08-17 10:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Xae 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
doesnt matter if the relationship started prior to ur previous one, its wrong. Its not fair to ur significant other, what would u do if she found out, how would u feel if she was screwing someone else. I think u know this isnt right, And u should not have started a new relationship when u didnt end another. Karma
PS Ur new girl doesnt satisfy u? If she doesnt try to work with her, it may develop into something off the hook and u wont have to cheat, that is if u feel shes worth it
2006-08-17 10:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong even if it started before you started dating. You obviously don't have a good relationship if your still going out for a booty call.
2006-08-17 10:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by alp8519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its wrong.
If you have a booty call partner, just make your booty call partner your mate.
your booty call partner is becoming more and more of a player and soon you're gonna be played out.
Soon you will be like a book he's read too many times and then you're no more fun. You'll see, it will be a quickie and its over and he's out.
2006-08-17 10:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong...it's called CHEATING! ANY time you have sex when you are in an exclusive relationship with someone else, and they don't know about it...it's wrong...
...but you already knew that...and were hoping someone would tell you it was okay...
Here's another way of looking at it...you're dating a guy, it's just you and he...and you really dig him...then you find out he's still having sex with his "friend with benefits" that he'd known before y'all met...how would you feel? He was supposed to be seeing only you...would you be okay if his penis was seeing someone else?
Treat others as you'd like to be treated...if you cheat or are a party to cheating, you are okaying it to be done to you...that's not kewl...
2006-08-17 10:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other person thinks your relationship is monogamous, then having the booty duty on the side is considered cheating.
Otherwise, if you are still not committed, what you do on your time is your business.
You might want to ask yourself, though - is the relationship going somewhere if you still need something else ? And if its not, why stick with it ?
2006-08-17 10:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by AmericanDreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very wrong if your in love with that person u are commited to them havin a booty call partner breaks the commitment.
2006-08-17 10:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mae-Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Cause u are trying to start a connection eith this new person and now the relationship is based on lies ya know. And there is still that thing called getting caught. Be carefull
2006-08-17 10:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah thats wrong and dangerous because you dont know who all your booty call partner or boyfriend is having sex with. Keep it pimpin and stay true before you get a really bad STD
2006-08-17 10:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"doesn't know about it" That pretty much answers your questions right there. As far as I'm concerned there's nothing morally wrong with being a total player... but you are nothing but a coward if you can't be truthful to those that invest time and energy in you. Be straightforward with the "involved" and leave it to them as to whether they want to be one of the people in your intimate life. Just don't be a liar. There's nothing good that comess from that approach.
2006-08-17 10:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by GS Terror 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong- but on the other hand- if you have an open relationship- one where both partners can sleep with other people- then it is alright
2006-08-17 10:45:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋