if u r a big person would u b attracted to another big person?

Question

being big myself i am not attrated to other big people, sometimes i cant stand lookint at myself in the mirror yet alone have to look at another fat body

Answer 1

I would/am not be attracted to another big person because it would just remind me of how big I am. It is my choice to date and be with whoever I want, just like it's any other persons right to be attracted to whoever they want. You can't knock a person for wanting who they want regardless of their size. If I am plus size and want to be with someone smaller than me then you don't have anything to say about that, just like a lot of you guys opinion I have no right to judge you about. You want who you want, so be happy with it.

Answer 2

I am a thick woman and I've only dated very fit guys. I actually feel very ignorant when I think about it b/c I expect these hot guys to want me, but I wouldn't date a big guy. On the other hand, there is a guy that I'm really starting to like who is a little chunky. I think that's a special case though. Usually i go for beautiful thin guys... probably to make myself look better. It's pathetic. I hate it. I also know a lot of big guys who won't date big women. They want the most beautiful skinny girl that will take them, which usually just makes them miserable.....

Answer 3

not necessarily would you be attracted to a big person. Some guys like big girls, sometimes it is the other way around. Me personally, i like the same build as myself. Me and my husband are both thin and about the same height, it also depends on personality of a person. Looks aren't everything, they help, but I have seen some of the most gorgeous people with the most unimaginable partners.

Answer 4

Personal preference is just that - personal. It varies from person to person. Taste or preference is as diverse as people themselves.

While MOST people seem to prefer someone who is a healthy body weight, there are people who prefer a girl/woman who's a bit chunkier. DO NOT hate yourself. It does no good. Begin by loving the person you are on the inside, and you might be surprised at how you take better care of yourself.

Boys/men are attracted to the attitude as much as the body. If you have a poor self-image (if you hate yourself because of your body) that message will be telegraphed to others too. Conversely, if you are happy - regardless of your shape - people will like the wonderful person you are - regardless of your shape. AND the people who like you will be much better friends. They're the kind of friends who hang in there and are there for you when you need them.

Answer 5

I'm not small anymore i wouldnt say im obese about 45 lbs over weight or so and im dating a tiny guy that only weighs about 145 lbs when we met we were about the same weight. To be honest i would rather have a larger man and im trying my damndest to fatten up the one i have..lol..its not working mind you..lol. But yeah to me a man with some meat on his bones is good. but every man differs some men look really good with some meat some men dont.

Answer 6

im a "big person" and i dont normaly find other larger then average people attractive. in fact i tent to go for VERY athletic types. most likely because i cant stand being big. i cryed in a store today because i was so fustrated finding teenish clothes that fit right. all they have is old lady clothes in plus :-(

Answer 7

I have a friend who feels the same way you do. She finally started doing the sweating with the oldies!?! And lost 60 lbs and now a lot more guys are hitting on her.

Answer 8

take a look at whos inside, and find someone who's personality is great and that could change everything even there outer appearance. But just lose weight if you don't like how you are. It's your body, nobody's telling you to do anything and you control it. so...take control!

Answer 9

I am not large, nor have I ever been large. My husband, over the course of our 10 year marriage has managed to gain like 70 pounds or so and I find him sexy as hell. It is probably because I love him though.

Answer 10

Yeah, I usually date skinny guys myself even though I'm not. The guy I'm dating now is heavy but I still love him and think he's a good guy. But he's the only heavy guy I've ever been with.