Okay, I know this question sounds like it is asked by a 10 year old, but I am 20 years old. So don't please don't say "You are to young to know." If you aren't going to give me an answer, don't answer at all. Well the only type of "sex" I have had with my b/f is the kind you have when you get pregnant. I have two kids already for proof, and two on the way. Well what's all that other stuff? Like through the butt and stuff? How do you do it? And how do you do all of that other stuff. I was only told how to do "it" when I was twelve in school. Please fill me in here.
2006-08-17 10:37:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait.......how do you do it "through the butt"? Why would you do it if you can't enjoy it and it hurts?
2006-08-17 10:46:23 · update #1
Okay read your other questions so I am confused..you say you have two kids already and two on the way but in your other questions you mention a 7 year old son, a four year old daughter and a 6 year old daughter that wants to sing... That adds up to three kids not only that but if your oldest is 7..you must have gotten pregnant at 12 years old.. Because you say you are 20. Not putting you down but after about 8 years of having sex...shouldn't you know a little bit more than you do?...
I am beginning to think this is the twelve year old little sister talking......
P.S. only children use the term.."through the butt" Older people will call it "anal sex"
2006-08-17 11:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The butt makes the orgasm intensified you will love it. Don't just do it, A good way to get used to it is to have your b/f climax you orally and using his finger in your vagina rub you downward pushing on your anus area and have him do it while you orgasm.The next time have him use just about half of his little finger in your anus and have him keep it there while you orgasm. Have him go easy and you have to relax. Do that until you think you are ready so you will be able to relax and have an idea of what it is like. The first time have him spoon you and have regular sex first and then have him put it in slowly .Once he is in go easy and lift your leg so he can use his fingers on your clit and vagina. You will be amazed at the orgasm.
let me know how it turns out.
2006-08-17 13:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older you get, the more experienced you get. Not phisically, but emotionally. Thru the years and with good communication, you and your husband will know what each of you likes or dislikes. Not everybody is alike, but generally, trying things out, because "everybody" else is doing it, is not a key to finding pleasure. So hang in there, know your body will ring bells when something feels great, or when you want to experience something different!nHope I didn't confuse you more!!
2006-08-17 10:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There number of ways that people have sex is equal to the
number of people on the planet, and then some.
There are lots of good box on human sexuallity, perhaps the
most famous being the Masters and Johnson book
"Human Sexuality", I think in its 5th edition now.
2006-08-17 10:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be aware as part of your dive in sexual exploration that you can get pregnant from anal sex...it is a small chance, but I have seen it happen. I work in public health...at a teen clinic. Try finding a book or asking someone close to you. or if you don't want to...look on-line. ALWAYS practice safe sex...that means...always ALWAYS where a condom (to start!)
2006-08-17 10:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Kathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get filled in through the butt at least you won't get pregnant by it. definately don't do this if your pregnant I'm very serious about this wait untill you not pregnant. it's really bad ju ju if you take it in the butt while pregnant.
2006-08-17 10:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have had two girlfriends that liked the butt pumped. He's got to start slow slow slow and just get the tip in first(make sure its wet) then gradually work the whole thing in slowly,in and out slowly, til your musle loosen up a bit then he can just start ramming it. make sure he kisses you first
2006-08-17 16:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by psycoholicwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do anal? In my opinion things should only come out that way.. not in. There is oral sex, where you go down on your guy and he goes down on you. For other positions you should look to kama sutra.
2006-08-17 10:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by TheLight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some 64 ways of doing it (Kama Sutra).But its not easy without practising it you can follow simple ones that they show in porn movies for time being
2006-08-17 10:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by sizzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the bookstore
find a book like "the joy of sex" or "kamasutra whatever" or whatever
if you are embarrassed to buy a book or don't want to spend the money, there are many many web sites that provide blow by blow (pardon the pun) descriptions of sex acts, sexual positions, etc
2006-08-17 10:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by enginerd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋