my girl friend has dumped me twice asked me out the same night and when she dumps me it feels like i just put my fist down my throat and ripped out the insides i know im in love i treat her like a princess relly and today she was so discusted with me she didnt even want to look at me i asked her if something was rong she said i dont no and shes dumped me twice for the same guy
2006-08-17 10:35:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok. the problem here is you love someone who doesn't deserve it. you treat her like a princess, u do everything she wants, but she's still not satisfied.
that means 1) you don't satisfy her. and 2) she doesn't appreciate your LOVE.
therefore, no matter what u do, 100%, she will not be satisfied. because she doesn't think your love is something worth keeping. worth treating well. she has no respect for you. that is just awful.. esp when u try to do all u can. that's the thing w/ people; u cannot force them to see or appreciate things, or act the way u'd like them to. the only thing u can do is control yourself, to be the best person, boyfriend, u can be. if she doesn't appreciate it, then what u need to do is find someone who Will. i know u love her, and want her to change, but she never will until she chooses to. which is why u need to first realize that you are a Great boyfriend. did u try ur hardest to satisfy her needs? did u take care of her? did u appreciate and respect and Take her Crap??? YES you did. so you are a great boyfriend. ok, having said that, do you deserve a Great Girlfriend?? i should hope so! is she a great girlfriend? =T sorry to say, but i don't think so. therefore, she doesn't fit into what your expectations of a Good Girlfriend is. so u need to either give her a chance to change, but communciate what u want from this relationship, and see if she is willing to do something about it. if not, then u need to go out there and Find someone who FITS your expectations in a woman, and in a girlfriend. because that is the person who is going to treat you right, appreciate you, respect you, and grow with you. not someone who is Negative, Disrespectful, Hurtful, and Selfish. Love is not the problem here; the problem is she doesn't appreciate it. so communicate, and be firm in what u want, because u expect yourself to be a great guy towards her, it's only natural to expect to be treated well too. let her go and find someone who she is satisfied with...and let her go so that you can find someone who you are satisfied with, and can satisfy you.
good luck~
2006-08-17 10:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she knows you will always be her door mat when she needs to feel like the princess she doesn't deserve to be.
why do you treat her so good when she is stepping all over you. don't you know you are throwing your pride out the window? for nothing, at the least, then to hurt even more?
she does not love you. if she thinks she does, she is lying to you and lying to herself. if she knew what loving you really is like, she would consider your feelings.
DISGUSTED with you? HONEY...
Isn't that a big fat sign saying, "End the nonsense. Move on."
You are letting her have her cake and eat it , too. Why give her the PLEASURE. Make yourself happy and find the right girl for you.
You are this way because
Every person wants what they can't have.
So snap out of it.
"Fool me once. Shame on you.
Fool me twice. Shame on me."
2006-08-17 10:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her run your life. Take control and get rid of her. It will hurt now, but it will make you happier later. You will never regret standing up to her and getting out of a bad situation, you will however regret not doing so.
Besides, how can you meet the girl of your dreams if your wasting your time on this looser?
2006-08-17 10:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship to me. Atleast not for you, she's got two guys she can go between and neither of them will put their foot down to tell her that she needs to pick one or get the **** out. I know you love her and all, but you don't need to deal with her going from one guy to the next knowing she can come back to you whenever it doesn't work out with them.
2006-08-17 10:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably won't like my answer but, I think it's about time for you to let her go. She obviously doesn't know what she wants. Maybe you should just give her a little time. I know you love her but, just bow out for now. She may eventually come around and realize what she had with you. If she doesn't come back then it just was not to be.
2006-08-17 11:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so easy dont let her see you hurt.I think she is doing this for fun stand up and be a man tell her youre dumping her and see how she feels. She shouldnt do you like this because she will reap what she sow.
2006-08-17 10:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that your gf is treating you so badly...she does not deserve you. She doesn't know what she wants and is playing games with you. If you continue taking her back is will continue treating bad.
2006-08-17 10:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok .ahh thsta sad but i think u diserve wayyy beter thatn that.cua if she has dumbed u twace then jus 4get about her.it might be head to 4get about her but life moves on everyday and so shoule we.so jsu try to move on cuz if u egt her back she will keep hurting u 4 nothing.goodluck
2006-08-17 10:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro...i'm really sorry to hear about that. i know where you are coming from. just don't do anything stupid to yourself or others to vent anger at them. honestly i hope everything works out for you alright and i hope you can learn something from these relationships
2006-08-17 10:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by confusedude529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on bro....sounds like you really love her to deal with her ****. However, the question is do you love yourself enough to move on.
2006-08-17 10:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋