YA KNOW, PENIS STUFF EVERYWHERE ETC... IS THE BRIDAL SHOWER SUPPOSED TO BE LIKE THAT TOO? OR IS SUPPOSED TO BE MORE TASTEFUL SINCE MOMS ARE THERE??
2006-08-17 10:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The bridal shower should be more tasteful since it's done during the day.
2006-08-17 10:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by mergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bridal shower is for your friends and family females. I personally would not be at all comfortable with my mom, my future mother-in-law, my under age nieces, my fiance's under age nieces and godchildren (girls), or my bridesmaid's under age daughters at a function with any sort of crass/crude/raunchy theme or behavior. Since I am not a drinker, don't do the dance club or stripper thing, and handful of these same people are my bridesmaids, and my maid of honor is my 16 year old niece, I am not having a bacholorette party of what is considered "the norm". We will be having a day for the ladies at a spa; complete with manicures, pedicures, massage, choice snacks on hand and one glass for each of us of a fine quality champagne!
Call me an old lady (I'm 37) but the idea of "penis stuff everywhere" is rather tacky, IMHO. I never really had a "run" so I don't feel I need "one last one". I'm much more interested in looking forward to being with my future hubby and enjoying his talents and endowments as they might be...eh, hem. ;-)
Have a great time at your parties and congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
2006-08-17 18:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by chaimail04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people get a little out of hand! My daughter was a virgin till she got married, she was very shy but not naive to most sexually stuff. The church gave her a shower, the family gave her a shower, and the girls(bridesmaids) gave her a bachelorette party. Moms should be at the bachelorette party. It for the young women to have a blast. I was invited to my daughter's party, because I still like to have fun, and I am kind of a laid back. I purchased at least 5 sexy outfits for my daughter. I got her a "fun bag" with glow in the dark condoms, french ticklers, chocolate syrup. and all kinds of treats...eatable underwear for both the bride and groom. I did not go to the party, because I felt like it wasn't my place. That was for them. They ended up in the emergency room, someone cut their foot on a broken blender.
I feel like that's not a place for Moms. If you are bride ask the party giver not to get too rough, or have 2. One clean tasteful one, and another no hold barred one...honey, do what you think is best. I respect you for asking about this, most people just don't care what is right or wrong anymore. You are going to be just fine. Have a great time! God bless us all.............
2006-08-17 17:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by totallylost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bridal shower is tasteful since moms. coworkers, and grandmoms and aunts are invited to those partys. The bridal shower is the party for presents and famiyl and friends. The bacholette party is for your friends to throw a party for you and maybe even not give gifts at that party.
2006-08-17 19:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Educated 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the bridal shower is for the women family and freinds to give gifts for the bride and grooms home. while your father, father-in-law and groom spend the day doing something together like golfing. mainly the people who are in the wedding.
you can have a "jack and jill" bridal shower where everyone can go.
it should be tastefully and nice. like an afternoon tea party or a brunch. most brides like to have it at lunch time. inexpensive, not something you go all out on. you can play games like bridal bingo, or the purse game.
2006-08-17 18:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a bridal shower should be more toned down and tasteful. You can still have fun, but my grandma is coming to mine and I don't want to feel awkward if there are giant inflatable penises and stuff!
2006-08-17 20:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by ntfd68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bridal showers are not supposed to be that way at all. think of it as a baby shower, except its for the bride. everyone is there sometimes even the groom. the bridesmaid of honor is supposed to put it all together.
2006-08-17 18:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bridal shower is more tastefull and "princess like"! Thats when all the pretty,frilly,lacy,white,flowery,stuff takes place.The bacholerette party is a sort of one last run thing lol! Thats where all the alcohol,studded,tassely,erotic,raunchy,flamboyant,glittery,wild stuff takes place!
2006-08-17 17:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My experience is that a bridal shower should be sassy enough for a gift or two of lingerie but soft enough that Grandma won't be offended. (Of course, sometimes Granny is the sassiest one there!)
2006-08-17 21:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
2006-08-17 18:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BlackBarbie™♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋