me n this gir like eachother but, everytime we both on yahoo messenger, she never sends me an I-m, if i dont send one she wont? y is that?
2006-08-17 10:27:42 · 28 answers · asked by ClickSubscribe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could be scared you won't respond or she's just nervous and has nothing to say. It happens to me. Sometimes I see someone on there and I'm not sure if to say hi or if to wait... Such a dilemma.
2006-08-17 10:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by socasoccer@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) stop trying to figure out what she feels..... u can't know what anyone else thinks but yourself!! do you like her? OK!!!!
send her messages. make the first move. don't worry about being scared.. u will never find out unless u try. and a girl will let u know when she's not interested. she will stop writing. she will say "no" everytime u ask her out..so on and so on. as long as u know what page you're on, u need to lead her. let her know where ur at, and see if she follows. if she doesn't want to, she will tell u to back off, or say she just wants to be friends first, so and and so on. but u'll never get there until u try, and show her u can make ur own decisions. and i'm not saying u have to be a jerk and Force her to go out w/ you. i'm saying, u like her right? that's flattering for her, ur saying she's a great girl, u wanna get to know her. if she wants to get to know u too, she'll let u know! :) being a man means knowing what u want, and going for it. but also respecting a woman's choices...if she says no, or is unsure, u can't push her. u can only let her know where You stand, and see if she follows. don't get angry and expect anything; it's all about how you feel and finding out how she feels. good luck, and dont' worry so much. do what u feel is right, and don't question yourself.
2006-08-17 17:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, that is how i am, i wont send my man a message inless he sends one first! Girls feel that its cute if you do it first! They run and tell everyone what you and her talked about! I should know! Haha well some stuff at least! Well just every time she gets on say something really nice and sweet like "hi beautiful!" or something like that it really makes us feel good inside!
2006-08-17 17:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think there are two reasons for this. The 1st one is that she may just be shy and doesn't want to be a bug a boo. The 2nd one is that she may not be all that interested. Ask her so that u know for sure and not guessing. Don't assume.
2006-08-17 18:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's shy or unsure of what to say. If she likes you she might be worried that she'll say something that will make you like her less. Big deal, you might have to start up a conversation, but I'm sure there isn't anything wrong with her.
2006-08-17 17:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give her time to send one? When I first get online, I always check my email before I do much of anything else, including chatting. Maybe she just doesn't like to initiate conversations? I wouldn't read 'too' much into online behavior vs your daily interaction with her.
2006-08-17 17:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just shy? Or maybe she is busy doing stuff online and doesn't notice you got online? If she likes you I'm sure it's nothing personal against you as to why she doesn't message you. No worries!
2006-08-17 17:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by *apes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a relationship, find someone who's not going to beat around the bush and string you along.
2006-08-17 17:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by spunk113 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wants you to talk to her and for her to answer the question or comment.
That is what I would do. Alos mabe she is shy about things or don't want to send anything. You should talk to her about it. Then mabe she would send you something.
2006-08-17 17:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by darkdevilangel ( dda) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are socialized not to make the first move. They can get
over it, but many won't unless they are forced to.
If you started entirely ignoring her, she might just to see what
is wrong.
However, what's the point?
2006-08-17 17:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋