im 15 im scared im going to get dumped alot because in this time and day guys wont except you not wantin to have sex
2006-08-17 10:25:39 · 14 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hoorraayy!! You'll come across guys that will respect you for that and some that...well...are just horny. You dont want anything to do with them. And when good guys do come around, that temptation will poke at you and you better stand your ground and remember your vow to yourself. There may be punks out there who just might want to break you. I've heard about these things. They pretend to be good and sweet then try to get in bed with you. Becarefull. Don't be scared, be proud. I know I was and am. I waited until I wedded my husband. We both did actually. Go fig that he was waiting for his wife too. =) Throuhout the years I knew and stood firm on waiting when I talked with some guys. They respected it. Some left but oh well..not the end of the world. One time an ex and I got tempted but it was up to me to stand my ground. I was glad and happy to give myself over to my husband all clean and pure =) Just imagine how wonderful it will be to be with your own husband forever. He's all yours to do whatever with. Keep up your vow, your prince will be around I'm sure of it. So more power to you! Much blessings! =)
2006-08-17 10:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by katphotogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 01:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you.........wanting to wait until you are married. Don't worry about getting dumped there are to many guys out in the world and you are barely 15. Just be straight forward when meeting a guy, let him know how you feel and if he doesn't like it, well you just move on. There will be someone who will understand and respect your decision.
2006-08-17 10:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared to get dumped. It's not the end of the world. If you want to wait to have sex until marrige, good for you! If you are with a guy and he respects your decision, then he'll stay with you. If you're with someone who just wants to have sex, then he'll leave and you're better off without him.
2006-08-17 10:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some good advise. Today's world is just about sex. If you are still a virgin you should feel proud of yourself and if someone doesnt want to except you the way you are then they were not ment for you.
2006-08-17 10:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right guy will not dump you for wanting to wait. He may be hard to find but he's out there. Just be patient! And good luck!
2006-08-17 10:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by *apes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you shouldn't have sex until you are married. don't be scared you are going to be dumped. i think the same thing but it is against my religion (Christian) and i finally realized you don't have to do that stuff just to keep a guy. you will find that guy one day who is a virgin too.
2006-08-17 10:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared but dont be a s!ut either u can wait for marriage but at 15 its normal to be scared but u shouldnt be i guess cause if he realy likes you he wont dump you
2006-08-17 10:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Gentlemen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you are too young for sex so I also think you are too young for a boyfriend. Enjoy your time with female friends your age and enjoy being young. P.S. It should be "accept" not "except".
2006-08-17 10:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a gay female, i can tell you there are trillions of ways two people can 'get it on' without doing it. Period. I hope my child is extremely choosy you set a great example.
2006-08-17 10:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋