How do u also know when a man is not interested in you anymore?
2006-08-17 10:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u will feel it. it's all about feeling secure, and safe. if for any reasons u feel that he is treating you badly, not taking care of your feelings, belittling you.. pretty much AnYTHING negative, you will sense that there is something wrong.
the thing about a Good Relationship is that your partner will make you feel Safe, Loved, Wanted, Attractive, and Respected. if there's anything negative in there, u have to figure out where the problem is. usually one of u is not being satisfied somehow, whether mentally, emotionally or physically. and when a man is truly in love with someone, he will do anything he can to take care of her needs. it sucks when the girl is a B**** and takes advantage of it, but he will do it if he wants her. same as a girl; when she truly loves her man, she will take any crap he throws at her, and wonder what she can do to change and make him happy. but they don't realize that it's their PARTNER who is the problem. so what u need to do is be confident and safe and happy and positive in Yourself. that way, if someone treats u badly , or is "not interested" anymore, u will say "Good riddance! i don't want someone who doesn't want me!" instead of feeling bad about yourself. someone who truly cares about u will not make u feel bad, and if they do, they will try all they can to fix it.
make sure u have expectations from urself to be a Great Catch, and u will have the right to expect a Great Catch for yourself. anything less than that is not worth your time~ :)
*as for the player part.......... it's about trust. u have to trust eachother..and if you are trustworthy, u deserve someone who is trustworthy. if he does anything that doesn't make sense, or doesn't match up w/ his words and actions, u have case to be suspicious. and that will cause u to distrust him. so, if u distrust him, most likely there are indicators that he is not being quite faithful or truthful to you.. love is blind, but its not stupid. u have to think with your heart....understand u love them, but be able to rationalize what good and bad relationship is. happy and positive and healthy are KEY to good relaitonship!
2006-08-17 10:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players usually don't commit to you... they like spending time with you as long as they have fun and/or have sex with you. You might not know but you might not be the only one he is seeing, or even having a "relationship" with you he might continue to walk around with his eyes open, always receptive to meet new girls.
Usually when he looses interest he has less and less time for you until he doesn't have any time anymore and by then you will have understood and let go of him.
It can be fun to date a player as long as you aren't looking for something serious, but falling in love with one could hurt in the end, just try not to...
2006-08-17 10:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
player=complimenting you too much and right off the bat so you know they can say whatever they said to you to anyone.
not interested is tougher because sometimes people can still be interested , even in LOVE and act the complete opposite out of insecurity or anger over something...... so not interested would be not calling you much or wanting to see you as often.
2006-08-17 10:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you ask this questions means he's probably a player and he is porbably not into you anymore.
2006-08-17 10:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they don't pay attention to emotional things, when they try not indulge in any thing of you.
When a man ignores you and try to show interest only where he would like to go........!
2006-08-17 10:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they hang out with way more girls than boys (or vice versa)
when they dress up funny for girls (or boys)
and when they have gone out with tonnes of chicks (or guys)
i hope this helps
i know a lot of people who are total players
and they do a lot of this kinda stuff
2006-08-17 10:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by soggyoreo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to find a player they usualy look realy gd and smile always and and when they are un interested they tell you
2006-08-17 10:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Gentlemen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares how to be sure, and when to know
if there's any doubt in your mind, then why bother?
2006-08-17 10:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by KLD it. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you aren't getting any time anymore.
2006-08-17 10:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by LovelyMe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will know when you call him and simply doesnt care.
2006-08-17 10:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Gabrio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋