please help . . . here's a quick summary of the problem. i've been friends with this guy for more than one year. i've recently discovered that i've fallen for him. the problem is that he's dating a friend of mine. what do i do? can i tell him how i feel?
2006-08-17 10:14:30 · 6 answers · asked by artysse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it alone, it's probably just lust. You see them together and want what they have, but you don't need him to have what they have.
2006-08-17 10:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! Recently I have been in the same situation. Do you think you maybe are just jealous of the new person that he is dating? Not so much that you like him?? Like, with me, recentyl a good friend of mine started dating a girl and as soon as he did I was so sad and thought that I liked him and was so jealous of the new girl. But after time I realized he was the same friend he always had been, he just didn't have as much free time to spend with me, so I was just jealous of the fact that she got his time and he wasn't as free as much to play with me! So maybe that's what is going on with you?
Otherwise, I say hold out on telling him how you feel. Cuz then you may confuse him and mess up his relationship and that's not fair, you know? I say continue being there for him while he see's this new person, especially since it's a friend of yours, and when they break up you'll be there to comfort him and it will go from there :)
2006-08-17 17:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by *apes* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better look in another direction, sweetie. Stay away from him.....stay away from them. It is not nice to do what you are thinking. There is a loyalty among friends. Do the right thing and back off.....in the end, friends mean more and so does your personal integrity.
2006-08-17 17:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said she was your friend, how can you even think about doing something like that to your friend? If you can do something like that to her, your not a friend anyone needs.would you want her to do that to you? treat others how you want them to treat you.
2006-08-17 17:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by theladylooking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends how serious your friend and him are. Try getting her together with someone else so he's yours! lol j/k
Listen to your heart then go....
2006-08-17 17:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o gosh don't tell him... which is more important to you... the friendship or the guy?
2006-08-17 17:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Grl_in_love15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋