Would like some advice from christians, I 'm not religious and she knows, I've told her that I like her and been very direct, she acts as if she can't hear me, but she keeps sending me messages to my cel phone, I don't wanna let her go, and it seems she likes me too, now I don't wanna just get her to bed, I like her, but I day dream about giving her a kiss, what should I do?
2006-08-17 10:13:02 · 13 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
To put it dirrectly to you, and according to the word of God, and if she is a Christian she already knows this, you dont' belong with her or her with you because you are not a Christian.
2006-08-17 10:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Carol M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she can't fully accept you because of a little difference in belief, then she's not worth it. You really need to let her go. Somebody who lets differences get in the way of love is narrow minded. We're all different in so many ways. If we let every little difference bother us, we woudn't be able to stand each other, would we? Don't chage for her. Don't change for anyone.
If she really cared, she'd've gotten past your non-religiousness by now. Just because two people have different beliefs doesn't mean they can't share other things and love each other.
If you don't care that she can't accept you, fine: ask her out. It sounds like she'd say yes. Just remember that if things ever get serious, you'll probably have to face the religion thing eventually.
2006-08-17 17:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It says in 2 Cor. 6:14 Do not be yoked together with unbelivers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
God says that an unbeliever and a believer should not be married. It would be wrong for her to marry you unless you were a Christian.
2006-08-17 17:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's giving you mixed signals, that means that she's conlflicted. As a Christian, I can understand this. OUt of respect for her it would be best to let her know what you've let us know, and ask her to stop giving mixed signals. It's okay to ask someone to stop bouncing from one side to the other, and not involve you until she's sure how SHE feels.
2006-08-17 17:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Andy VK from Houston 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so impressed with how much you respect her beliefs (I'm pretty sure that for most Christian girls - kissing is okay). Maybe try asking her out through a text message, or something like that.
good luck!
2006-08-17 17:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by daisyk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would be much better off finding a nice, earth-friendly, pagan kind of girl, one who can give you all the love and satisfaction that you both desire and deserve. This girl you're interested in right now will almost certainly be nothing but trouble. Drop her like she's radioactive.
2006-08-17 17:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When it comes to getting them in bed, that is easy. Just tell them you are christian, and manipulate, etc. When it comes to an honest relationship, well. Tell her god loves you, so should she. Tell her you would like to spend more time with her, and learn about her beliefs (they love a chance to convert people). This is complicated, but that is a start.
2006-08-17 17:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OoO im in almost the exact same boat. weird huh. If you find out let me know. but then again I guess it depends on what kidn of christian she is. if shes one of the hardcore ones that say its a sin to marry someone whos not christian then i guess ur pretty TOL. hope not though. Good luck on that.
2006-08-17 17:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she is a christian she will stop seeing you if she knows her bible which says that nonbelievers are not to be yoked to believers that also means dating and she will not go to bed with you if she also knows what the bible says about sex before marriage ask her
2006-08-17 18:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by teacher2you2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true Christian living a Christian life she would not pursue a relationship with a non Christian.
2006-08-17 17:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by travelguruette 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋