ok theirs this girl ive been talking to on the internet (and no its not some guy) she sends me pictures all the time i send her pics too ,we even talked on the phone weve fallen for each other only problem is she lives in this small town in ontario canada and i live in san diego california, only problem is i don't know how to get to her HELP ME!!
2006-08-17 10:02:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been talking for a year
2006-08-17 10:10:41 · update #1
i would walk to her if i had no other way
2006-08-17 10:14:59 · update #2
Long distance relationship... I know how that one is.
You just keep doing what you're doing; talk to her over the net, over the phone...
It all depends on how old are you, and do you have a job, and intend to go and see her. If you are working, put some money on the side if you want to visit her once. And she can do the same thing on her side, so that she can visit you back.
If you two like each other, you just have to keep the connection you have, and be extra patient, understanding... coz long distance relationships are a lot harder than the regular ones. I know it, coz I'm in the middle of one. It gets hard at times, coz we're separated, but we're in love... and that feeling of love that I have for him, and that he has for me, it's something really special, and no matter how hard it gets, I don't want to lose it or let go.
If you care for this girl, try to get to her... just keep the money inside your pockets, and don't spend on something you really don't need in life.
I wish lots of luck both to you and her! In the end, if this is the real thing, I'm sure you two will end up being together... having and sharing all the things that a couple shares and does.
Faith, love, understanding, trust... it's all you guys probably already have... and it will grow with time, and become stronger. Just believe in your love, and try to reach the goal of seeing each other for real... then set up another goal after that one.
Good luck once more!
P.S. If you or her want to talk, feel free to contact me! I'd be more than happy to help with advices and support. (I'm in a long distance relationship for 1 year already... and have no plans of giving up!)
2006-08-17 10:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by miraob86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what you're doing. If it comes down to it, one of you will move to be with the other one. I don't think either of you should take that leap of faith until you've been talking for a long long while, and hopefully met a few times too.
2006-08-17 17:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents to take a trip up there nd see wat they say
2006-08-17 19:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by ricanflavor89 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋