2006-08-17 10:00:28 · 26 answers · asked by SupaStarr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I would and have actually. It all depends on the maturity of the relationship between both people and for each person to know that there is a difference between a love that a man/woman has for their children and the person they are seeing. Some people tend to get it mixed up and become jealous of that fine line and begin competing against a child/ren ( Not cool). However, there are a lot more factors that has to be taken into consideration when children are involved. Primarily focusing on open communication, trust, basically the real deal. No lies and no Games.. i.e. nah me and my baby momma just have a business relationship, yea I stay over there most of the week, but I sleep on the couch!.. C’mon cut the ish and be real otherwise you are cutting yourself short. Be real ladies and gent.
-Dee
2006-08-17 10:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am engaged to a guy with 4 children prior to the birth of our daughter. When I met him at the time I had none and only one was living with us now 3 are there plus my daughter who makes 4 however, if I could do it all over again I would take falling in love with a guy with those same qualities without children or no more than one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They are 8, 11, and 16, and 18, the two younger ones are too needy and the Baby Mama dead beat drama stuff is too much so at times I have to grit my teeth I warn anyone not to take on this responsibility
2006-08-17 10:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I currently have 4 children (8, 14, 16, 18) and I wouldnt date someone who DOESN'T have children. Only because I refuse to have anymore children (even got neutered) and if the relationship should get really serious--- eventually the guy would want kids....so getting involved with a guy without children is wasteful for me.
2006-08-17 10:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For my sake I hope that there are some men out there who would date a women with children because I have 2. I'm currently going through a divorce and I hope that if my heart ever heals from the hurt, that there would be someone who would accept me and my girls and show us real love. Otherwise, I'll be assed out. LOL
2006-08-17 10:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess since I have children, I would not date a man without children. It just doesn't fit right.
2006-08-17 10:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too old to raise another herd of children. I just want to sample the ole heifer and move on.
2006-08-17 10:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...my bf has a 10 year old and I enjoy the time that he gets to spend with us. I take his son to movies with friends and to eat and we just have a good time.
2006-08-17 10:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by brandymcclain23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband did. i had two kids from my previous marriage. WE are very happy but it takes a lot of patient on your part. It wasn't easy. We now have a child of our own to add to the mix.
2006-08-17 10:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truley love or care for that person, if they have children, then they are a package deal. This should be considered before taking it any further.
2006-08-17 10:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Especially if he was a good Dad to them (or she was a good Mother to them, for the opposite sex). What else could you hope for in a person?
2006-08-17 10:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋