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Theres this guy who i totaly have a crush on, he's hot and i'm sure a few other girls like him to, so when he accutaly talks to me and say hi or w/e i feel specail until 1 second later he turns around and says hi and and w/e to a whole row or cute lil blondes behinde me, i don't know if i'm cute or not, i hear a alot of people say oh your so prettey from girls and everything but i don't know what that's suppose to mean, but then again i just have low self esteem, but anyways how do i get this guys attention , how do i start a conversation with him? What do i say after HI! i dunno what to do help

2006-08-17 09:59:53 · 21 answers · asked by lolla 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Ask him how are you, what have you been up too. Be smilely,flirty and nice,but play hard to get. Also if you think that you are special and pretty people will think so too.
Here are some flirting tips:

1.Smile broadly.
2. Throw him darting glances.
3. Look straight at him and flip your hair.
4.Look at him, look away, toss your head and then look back,
5.Lick your lips and parade close to him with exaggerated hip movement.
6.Sticky eyes-look him in the eyes,drag your eyes away from his as if they have been stuck with warm toffee.
7.Let your eyes slide down the nose to the lips, caress the lips with your eyes for a moment and then slowly venture south to the neck.
8. Guys like it when you go "Uuuummmm" or "Oooohhhh". Don't know why, they just do.
9. Be friendly and smiley, BUT play hard to get.
!0. You can never flatter guys too much, they'll never know you are being ironic.
11. Never use hints with guys as they just don't get it.
12. Don't give up, be cheerful but realistic.
13. Believe in yourself and think you're "the bees knees" and then other people (guys) will think so too.

Hope these help!
:)))))

2006-08-17 10:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Okay say you're in the hallway at school in between classes:
Wheither of not you know, you ask him "So what class do you have next?" He says...say History, you say really I love/hate history. and he says me too/not me. And you just keep talking about history and when he asks what class you have you tell him and say your opinion about it. And this goes on until the bell rings and you head in separate directions. (This does not work if you are going to the same class).

Okay now next instance : You see him after school leaning against a wall looking into space. You go up to him and say "whatcha lookinh at?" and then he says "Nothing." And you say, well you have to be looking at something, cause there are the clouds and the sky and the blah, blah, blah. And he says yeah that's true but I wasn't really paying attention to that." And they you start talking about how people don't usually think about that and whatever.

Now if a girl comes up to him while you are talking, just say, okay I'll be going now and go away, don't look too desperate, okay?

And this is the most important thing; Be confident, guys seem to like that, and don't think that just because you are not as pretty as the other blonde airheads that you are not still beautiful, cause you don't know what they do to look like that, for all you know they may be throwing up their food everytime they eat.

And if it doesn't work out with this guy, don't sweat it, there will be others trust me, many, many, many others.

2006-08-17 10:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hello kindkidd2003,

Really look at him in the eyes and pay attention to what he's wearing. You are looking for something to talk to him about and compliment him on. You can say, "Hey I really like that shirt you're wearing." or a necklace or compliment him on his cologne, etc. He would be shocked that someone noticed that.

Some guys can't get much farther than saying hello to a girl, so by you trying to make more contact with him will go a lot farther than he will be with most girls.

Good luck.

--Rick

2006-08-17 10:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0 0

Listen up. Run as fast as u can. If does not give you the undivided attention, he is not interested in just you. I learned the hard way. Take it easy, he'll find you, not you find him. That is why it is called only a crush!

2006-08-17 10:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by jesset2_1 1 · 0 0

Stacy? is that you? OMG I have the same crush on you. come and talk to me later after Mr. Jordan's 4th period english lit class and we'll totally make out!

2006-08-17 10:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by corwinnn 3 · 0 0

you seem a little hard on your self!
Take a risk and talk to him ask him what he does after school!
ask him if he would like to hang out with you and some of your friends plan something...
ask him about school say what class do you hate most!
call him by his name everyone likes to hear there name even if they don't like there name...
and has him questions about him self come on who don't like to talk about them self.. but the more you talk about him and not yourself the more intriged he will be!
Good luck
Mad luv

2006-08-17 10:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hey girl its real simple,
after he says hi... just bring up anything...example
'he says hi' you say 'hey whats up...its so nice out here, too bad we cant have class outdoors'
or 'hey ...hows it going' 'hey how u doin'
thats a start! try it ...and ohh please girl, be confident on yourself... best advice: respect yourself that much..!! be happy for whom you are and be very very confident! have a strong mentality you can get lots of places this way! yes you can get this guy to be by yourside all crayzie in love! just be smart, confident! good luck to you!

2006-08-17 10:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0 0

This is so cliche, but you need to be yourself, don't be fake, be honest and also be confident. This can help you to stand out. Personality is key. if he doesn't like your personality, then look elsewhere for someone that you like who does.
Also, guys are stupid. You really have to spell it out sometimes that you are interested

2006-08-17 10:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

if your are cute enough then jus after sayin hi try sayin so what have u been up to lately then a conversation should start up frum their.

2006-08-17 10:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by donny31520 1 · 0 0

b head on jus pull him to a corner and talk 2 him make a "study" date

2006-08-17 10:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anei 2 · 0 0

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