How do you tell your boyfriend of 4 years that you are cheating on him?

Answer 1

You just tell him because it will be worst if he heard it from someone else. You owe him the truth because if it were you, you'd want to know. You would not want to be left in the dark. Don't just tell him you're cheating. Tell him why you are doing it. Who knows maybe you guys can overcome this bump in your relationship. You just have to expect the worst and hope for the best.

Answer 2

Well Dear! I believe in free mind; Ability 2 speak. As 4 U, I'll make it alittle bit easisr n' U can c if it truely will work 4 U. First, U kinda like go into a peace-luv discussion asking him he shud describe how he loves U.
If U're very impressed with his speech, then U'll tell him how much U love him too. U'll also ask him 2 4give U first no matter wat U're going to say 2 him n' he should promise U that.
Then, U'll tell him that It's bcos U love him so much that y U can't bear cheating at his back, that there's no gain in it n' U want both of U 2 have a stronger re-union.
I think he'll give u an ear but b4 he gives u an ear, he would just "act" as if he wants 2 xplode, but of a truth, afta that, U 2 would be like 2 luv birds, believe u me, I'm speakin out of EXPERIENCE, Takia n' note ur result.

Answer 3

Option One:

You: Honey, baby, I gotta tell you something. I've been cheating on you, like, forever *grin*. Happy four-year anniversary; we're gonna be so happy together *squee*!!!

Option Two:

You hold a party, have your boyfriend and buddies there, and invite the guy you've been cheating with, but have him come in a little later than everyone else. He comes in the door, you get out from between the arms of your 4-yr boyfriend and kiss the new dude smack dab on the lips in front of everyone. Then, go back into your boyfriend's arms.

Option Three:

Don't tell him. Continue cheating.

Now and then,
the Gibbler

Answer 4

If he's your boyfriend of 4 year you know at lease he cares about you, that means it might be getting a lil dull ( no offense ) so surprise him and do some awesome to spike your interest in him again and if things are going totally right afterward tell him of your cheating as long as he does good remember what turned him on about you when you first started dating, but remember the most important thing is forgiveness

Answer 5

Why not leave some condoms from the other guy on the nightstand next to the bed. That will bring up a great conversation.. You can always tell him you found the real woody and his pencil does not get the job done. That should send him into another world. Just be sure and do it when there is loads of space between you. Better yet lock him out and call him at work.. That way you can make a getaway before he gets to your place.

Answer 6

why you little harlot... there are many ways to leave your lover. do want them to TANGO? let them confront each other. or you could just give your present bf the ol' "let's be friends" BS or (the way i would prefer it) just get the fvck out of his life and don't come back. but if you feel like you really need to tell him then just say it. be prepared for ALL the drama that follows.

p.s. - or keep cheating and hope that he's too stupid to find out or has such low self-esteem he'll just deal with it.

Answer 7

More then likely he probably has cheated on you....Ask him if he wants to have an open relationship and tell him ur giving him permission to cheat and see what he says. Either that or dump him if he is gonna be a baby about it.

Answer 8

Just explain to him that he's great, but not the one for you. Tell him you found someone else and you'd like to just be friends. If he can't handle that, he's not worthy anyway, even to be friends. You have to do it though, because things will get alot worse if you keep it a secret beacuse you know he'll find out. Just be upfront about it.

Answer 9

If you want to continue the relationship, don't tell him. However I garantee he will find out, you always do. If you were cheating on him there's got to be a reason, so figure it out and stop or break up with him.

Answer 10

You sit him down and tell him the relationship is over because you obviously dont love him or you couldnt cheat on him. You wish him well in his future endeavors and you smack yourself for doing him wrong, but praise yourself for FINALLY being honest with him.