if u were in my shoes,do u choose the older guy who can give u everything u want even love....or the guy the same age as you who you really love him but he cant do anything for u
consider am 20 years old
2006-08-17 09:44:23 · 15 answers · asked by xsxsxsx36 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither, you are way to young to worry about choosing yet. Someone will come along who will rock your world and maybe a good provider too.
Be patient
2006-08-17 09:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by wyoredhd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position- truthfully I would choose the older man who can give u love as well...you will be better off in the long run! With the younger man yea you will love each other a ton- probably have a lot of fun but for long term stability older is better....plus having to both be in a tough spot and not fully stable is hard on a relationship....Choose Older :) lol!
2006-08-17 09:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by BLoNdE22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been more attracted to older men...and I'm 22. I've found that men who are older not only have their priorities in order, but they're usually more financially stable.
Not just that, but older men who have "been around" know a good woman when they see one (for the most part) and appreciate young women more than guys our age do.
A guy our age sees us as just another chick, but older guys, for some reason, want to hold onto us and treat us well. (Not to mention they're usually more sexually knowlegable, and know how to treat a woman in that respect too)
But ultimately it's a matter of taste. Whatever works for you, works for you, and it's not up to anyone else.
2006-08-20 16:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by still waiting 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older guy, or the one that you really love. But older guys are so much more mature! My sister is 24 and her husband is 32 and they get on brilliant!
Good luck, hope you make the right decision,
2006-08-17 10:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by noone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 because i don't date older men that's 5 years older than myself and I'm only 20. To your question; we can have the love and get through the problems together.
2006-08-17 09:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by tonya86_chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I chose the older guy but it just depends how old he is
2006-08-17 09:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say follow your heart. Money can buy you a lot of things, but it can't buy you love. If you truly love someone then that is really the only one that you are going to be happy with.
2006-08-17 09:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to be with someone who you don't love. Material things won't make you happy if love isn't there. Go with your heart and don't base your decision on who can give you things. Ask who can give you thier heart and be true to YOU. Best of wishes.
2006-08-17 09:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Raye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to elaborate more on the "he can't do anything for u" part. What can't he do that the older guy can?
2006-08-17 09:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much older the guy is...
2006-08-17 09:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋