I found out that my bf was cheating on me, he confessed that two months ago he got drunk and took some girl home, they ended up naked but didn;t have sex because he was too drunk. When he told me, I felt like some put a knife thru my hearst. We're together for a year and nine months. He's crying now and saying it will never happen again becasue you don't know what you had until you lose it ( I broke up with him). I don't know what to do. I still love him a lot, but I'm hurt and I don't know if I can trust him again. Please help.
2006-08-17 09:28:10 · 10 answers · asked by maya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get over him. He broke your heart. I'm sure he knew what he was doing. They always make excuses. Don't fall for it. If you take him back he will do it again and it will become a routine for him. Have pride in yourself and move on! Let him know he lost a good thing. To bad for him. He knows he won't find another like you.
But you will find a real prince charming one day!
2006-08-17 09:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big thing in a relationship. When it's broken its tough to repair. It does sound like he feels really bad for what he has done. It was pretty rude and insensitive. Do people deserve a second chance? Especially the ones you love?
2006-08-17 16:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you look just like me!!! Trust me you'll get over him. Don't take him back. Once a cheater always a cheater. If he didn't respect your feelings the first time he won't hesitate to do it again. Being drunk is a crapy excuse!
2006-08-17 16:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Marygoroun(d) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Maya, I'm a dude it's true what he said that yu dont know what you have until you hav lost it but does he drink? if he does there's no telling if he will again. If he promisses to stop drinking unless you're around give him another chance. Remember you still love him. Nachooooooooooooooooooooooo
2006-08-17 16:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Devilz Backbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i went through the same thing my boyfriend made out with my best friend i gave him another chance and he messedf it up again i wouldnt give him another chance we were together for 1year and 2 months
2006-08-17 16:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by darlingcuttiehottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely slept with her and was lying. Dump his ___ now and move on. Good luck.
2006-08-17 17:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by ajy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-08-17 16:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Justlookin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it... this will hang over both of your heads forever
2006-08-17 16:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Allison M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-08-17 16:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by ryled30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his cheating @$$
2006-08-17 16:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋