Ok be and my guy just broke up yesterday and now im dating someone on his football team they go to different schools in all. Im just worried my "new guy" will get hurt. I'm olny dating my "new guy" because im trying to make my x jealous is this good or bad???
2006-08-17 09:18:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let the new guy know. And no your not a playa! Your going to end up hurting your self in the end. Take some time for you. You deserve it. Coming out of a relationship and jumpin in a new one isn't good for any partys involved
2006-08-17 09:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by who is that girl? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a playa...what you are is selfish, young, and immature. You probably dont even see why huh? Its because you are merely using a guy to get to another guy. If you cared about him getting hurt you wouldnt be using him in the first place. Oh and you move really quick to have just broke up with boyfriend yesterday and have a new one today. You need to get it together sweety, before you get hurt the way you are hurting others.
2006-08-17 16:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bad. You shouldn't be using another guy to make your ex jealous. You're not being a playa, you're being an inconsiderate, egotistical jerk. You don't treat people like that. If you don't like the new guy, tell him and break it off, before he gets hurt, or before he finds out (from someone other than you) and hurts you. Good luck.
2006-08-17 16:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are, a PLAYA. You need to work on that, you are only going out with the new guy to get back at the old one. What is thepoint? What if your little plan doesn't work?
2006-08-17 16:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was a toatlly bad idea omg .. i think that is just so rude , what you did to your old bf . after a breakup you should just take awhile like a week or two to find some one else if your that despret . but seriously.. a football player that is one HIS team. .. but one more thing . your not a playa just needed
2006-08-17 16:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer if it's good or bad. Of course it's not good that you're just with your new guy to make your ex jealous. Karma's a *****, believe me...
2006-08-17 16:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what your definition of a "playa" is but it aint you. you just found a "rebound" and obviously you didnt like your man enough for you to find someone the next day!
2006-08-17 16:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is profoundly dishonest unless you have already
told him (and he understands it to be the truth).
How would you feel if someone took up with you just to make
someone else jealous?
2006-08-17 16:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it goes back to the golden rule intent!
if your intent to use this new guy to get back at y our ol guy then you will carry all the drama to go with it!
so ya that's bad
if your intent was to be with this new guy cuz you liked him then that would be good! but your using him! to me i wouldn't even be friends with you!
hope it helps
i'm sure it's not what you want to hear but wake up and treat people howYOU want to be treated
2006-08-17 16:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible!!! What if the new guy really really likes you and then you break up with him and he finds out you were just using him. That's kinda wrong don't you think? So I say it's wrong.
2006-08-17 16:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋