I know a guy who I went to school with years ago. He is a good guy. In the past few years he has had some bad breaks that has caused him to not be able to work a real job. ( A health problem) He doe's work. He also had to move back in with his parants. Would any of you go out with him. He has asked me out. I don't know what I should do. P.S Need all the answers I can get within 2 hours before he comes back. I am on his computer. I don't want him to know.
2006-08-17 09:14:48 · 22 answers · asked by Sarcastic Sid 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you interested in dating him or where he works, how much money he makes or where he lives? Don't be one of those shallow women! (you know what I mean or you wouldn't have posted this question) How would you feel if you were in his shoes? How would you like to have people avoid a relationship with you because of the same things he is dealing with? You know what is right, follow your heart.
2006-08-17 09:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, if you are using his account...he will know you asked this question...
Anyways...to answer your question...I would go out with him, esp. if you like him. Give him a chance...his health problems, and whatever else is wrong with him...that shouldn't stand in the way of your relationship...sometimes people can only think of the persons problems...and never give the person a chance to show who he really is. No matter what happens, esp. health problems, if you like a guy, it shouldn't stand in the way...GO! and don't treat him like a unhealthy person...guys absolutely do not like that at all!!! Treat him as a normal person, because deep down he is!
2006-08-17 16:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all he can find this by looking at his profile and seeing it there.
But if you liked the guy, then yeah go out with him. Why let something like a little health problem get in the way of what could be a very good relationship. If he can bring in some form of money, then so what, go for it if you like him...
2006-08-17 16:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the guy has had bad breaks. The question is do you like him and how do you feel? Many thing happen in this world but there's always room to improve. You can finally be his lucky charm that's up to you GooD LucK
2006-08-17 16:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him as a person? His finacial issues are not yours unless you get serious. Have fun. Enjoy his company. His reason for not having a steady job is legit. If he was just a bum then I would say don't do it. Once a bum, you know the rest. Good luck and have fun.
2006-08-17 16:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by who is that girl? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you would consider not going out with him for his health problems and living with his parents???
Like him for who he is, and the qualities he has, and decide on real reasons, not because he has had some hard luck lately.
2006-08-17 16:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see why not if he has the qualities of a guy your looking for then go for it! if not then just be friends and hang out!
But it's always worth a shot!
Life isn't fun with out any risks!
Take a leap of faith!
whats the worst that can happen if he is a good guy! You find out that you both are not compatable?
Mad luv
2006-08-17 16:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some qeustions to ask yourself:
*Can you take care of yourself financially right now?
*Is he emotionaly ready for a relationship.
*are you attracted to him
*has he had this pattern of loosing his job
if you answered yes to 2 out of the four id say yeah sure go for it
2006-08-17 16:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a good guy why not go out with him? Lot of people live with their parents for many different reasons, maybe he just needs some motivation. Try it, why not. :-))
2006-08-17 16:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by aaja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go out with him if not then dont so what if he is sick or lives at home. would not you want to daste if you got sick and had to move home. forl please grow up..... you are not piss princess ok you are not perfect.... he has had enough hard times in his life and if you need to ask a question about that then pls girl you dont deserve to be him ........
2006-08-17 16:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by abbie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋