My father killed a women and her baby and now hes in Flordia prison and im in Wisconsin. I miss him so much and love him and I fell thats wrong. I havent seen him since I was 2 now im 16.
2006-08-17 09:12:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At such a young age your father was taken to prison, I find it a little odd that you would have such strong feelings for someone who has been absent a lot during your life. I don't think it's wrong to love your father, but have had a hard time with you missing someone so much, maybe it's the idea of having a father that you miss. Thus being said, I would seek counselling.
2006-08-17 09:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your dad - not matter what. He may have done something bad but he is still your father. Just think if the shoes were on the other feet. If you were in jail - would you want your father to forget about you?
2006-08-17 16:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to think of him as your father and write to him often. I know it would be hard to deal with, but you can still have a relationship with your father.
2006-08-21 11:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unles it was an accident , don't deal with his emotions cuz he purposely killed 2 innocent people. If it was an accident tell him youll be der for him no matter what!!
2006-08-17 16:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your father killed those 2 on purpose then just forget him , hes not worth your love . if he didn't kill them on purpose , try to see him when your 18 and try to salvage some relationship with him
2006-08-17 16:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes your father.....my dad murdered my mom and one of her coworkers in 1969..i was 14 months old at the time........he went to prison and i grew up with my maternal grandparents.....when i turned 18 i met my dad......it didn`t work out......but i am glad that i met him...with you its a different situation...your dad is paying for his mistake and theres nothing wrong with you wanting to know.....just be carefull that you don`t get hurt emotionally
2006-08-17 16:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with a therapist, counselor or family services. You should talk it over with someone who can help you.'
2006-08-17 16:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it's kinda hard to believe that a child as young as two years old would have feelings for someone that they have not seen.
2006-08-17 16:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by A.Marie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well the thing is if he is sorry and knows what he did was wrong and asked god for forgiveness you should go see him but if he is saying "she deserved it" or something like that then forget it.
2006-08-17 16:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like im a brick in the stomach away
2006-08-17 16:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋