I want to know why ladies always hard to those who see them and asked them for a date?

Answer 1

It may have something to do with your approach to meeting women.

Answer 2

Evolutionarily, it is not in their best interest to.

If the only thing that mattered was genes, it makes sense for the
male to mate with as many females as possible to have as many
children as possible. That is how genes "succeed" evolutionarily.

Women, on the other hand, must commit 9 months to every
child prior to mating usefully again.

Therefore, women want someone who stays around and helps
with bringing up the children. She wants to be sure that
her initial choices won't leave her in the lurch.

However (and this is the kicker) ...

She wants to mate with guys who are promiscous so that her
children will be promiscuous and spread her genes.

That is, if promiscuousness is genetically linked, it makes sense
for women to want that trait in their children.

Now, we aren't all just products of our genes, but there are very
strong evolutionary arguments for why men and women have
their stereotypical mating behaviors.

By the way, if you don't believe me about women's urge to
mate with people who are promiscuous: More than 1/3rd of
the babies born in hospitals where blood typing and gene
matching are done cannot possibly be the child of the father
listed on the admission form.

Answer 3

I've found out the hard way that you CANNOT make some men understand that you are not interested in them sexually. I try to let them down nicely, and they don't get it and want another date. So I make an excuse and keep doing so and they don't get it and keep asking for another date and a relationship and marriage. Then they follow me around forever trying and trying. I eventually had to just tell them 'look, I'm not interested in you that way. I'll be your friend, your not-for-sexual-purposes friend who you hang out with every once in a while, but that is IT.' Some men you cannot let down easy.

Answer 4

Because of the feminist movement that happened in the 60's, its OK for women to treat us like sh-t. Just as blacks are aloud to play the minority card when theres a problem and justify racism towards white males, its almost the same thing but directed towards all males in general with american women and american men. Find you a nerdy lady who has a kind heart and a mind of her own. They usually look plain and often get over looked.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Because most guys only want one thing. And if that's what he wants, he's gotta work for it. We don't know what guys want initially, so we assume all guys want this(not that all of them do on the initial invite, but it's safe to assume). Besides, a lot of guys don't ask a girl the right way. I had one dude ride up on his BICYCLE(a one seater), and ask me if I wanted to go home with him...when I said no, he had the nerve to ask me y not! Then there are guys who ask me out, and when I tell them I'm taken, they'r like" I wish I was ur bf." What the F? Juvenile behavior like that turns girls off...especially if ur like...30...pulling that crap. The sweetest invite I got was when a guy told me he would've asked me out, if I was single. No "I wishes", no "keep me company at homes". Here's the kicker...the crappy invites...all asked by "normal" guys. The sweet one...asked by an autistic guy! Imagine that...society deems him disabled, but HE knew how to ask a girl out, but the one's society deemed fit to live w/o govt assistance...didn't even make a good effort!

Answer 7

If it is ALWAYS happening to you then you are either asking the wrong way or you are asking the wrong women.

There are lots of ways of being rejected, and it is not ALWAYS hard.

I mean, do you go up to total strangers and ask for a date? Thats inviting a harsh response.

Answer 8

It depends on how you've asked. Did you ask seriously are were you being fresh? A woman likes to be approached gently

Answer 9

sorry i never had that problem. most all of my dates came from them asking me out.

Answer 10

cause guys always approach them like they are part of a dating agency!!!!!!!!!!!!