He is in a relationship, however I feel that we really have a connection. I do not want more than just something light. I am in the office and he is working in the back. We are both supervisors for different divisions of our company. Also, I am used to dating guys who are very different than he is. He is a blue collar worker...and for some reason I am totally turned on by it. So...should I do anything?? Say anything??
2006-08-17 09:02:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd go out for drinks after work with a group, have to much to drink and ask for a ride home. . . get him there and ride him!
2006-08-17 09:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not!. I repeat . Do not date a coworker wether you are in the same division or not. I have had several horrible experiences with office romances. Imagine that you start dating and things go wrong. How are you going to feel to have no choice but to see/ interact with that person..If he or you leave the job or get transfered etc. that's fine. then
2006-08-17 16:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by done_deals 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One don't try to take some girls guy. It just is not right. Two why would you want to try something with a person in the work place? Think about it. If you break up they are there every single day.
2006-08-17 16:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, you shouldn't make a move. You don't want to get caught up in a love triangle. If he is already attached, then you should steer clear. If he was really interested in you, then HE would make the first move you wouldn't have to. If you try to make a move and he goes for it and continues to see the other woman, then you are just something for him to do in his spare time and trust me you DON'T want to be "just something to do". Find someone you can relate to and not attached already.
2006-08-17 16:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by mommyof6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. Everybody has had a similar experience before. Just know what you are doing. What you need to do is maybe first go out to lunch together. or Coffee. Start small and see where that leads to. You never know.
2006-08-17 16:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by iseestupidpeopleeverywhere 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a move if you want to most guys would love it, but be ready to ruin a relationship, make an enemy, feel totally wierd in your job, because your sleeping with a co-worker, if its worth all the trouble do it.
2006-08-17 16:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off! First off he is in a relationship therefore off limits. Secondly dating someone you work with is a bad bad idea
2006-08-17 16:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date a guy in your office. Unless, you enjoy having everyone in the building knowing your business. If you enjoy drama, then go for it.
2006-08-17 16:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi but mind your own business. Theres enough people out there breaking up couples you don't need to too. Find your own man.
2006-08-17 16:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Gez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me its not wise to mix business with pleasure. It never works out
2006-08-17 16:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋