Ok this is a serious question. When my boyfriend and I are having sex he always tells me he wants me to scream. He says its his goal to make me be loud. But ever since I started having sex I was living with other people so I made myself be quiet so no one could hear us, Now I live on my own I can be as loud as I want but it just doesn't feel right. I don't know how to do it what to say, What if he thinks I am retarded?? And I don't want the "You're to young crap" cuz trust me I am not I am just not experienced in being loud. HELP I wanna make him happy??
2006-08-17 09:02:22 · 17 answers · asked by ~cuddles~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ease into it, do whatever makes you comfortable. of course your not used to being alone, so you tend to be quieter, but once you get used to it, knowing no one will hear you, you may get into it. if not it's not for u and he'll have to either deal with it or just move....
2006-08-17 09:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by novalee9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why they like it but i feel the same at times. You need to just start by talking dirty to him....once you start his going to be all up on you then you could start by making noises like hmmmmm and stuff like that I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. After when you feel comfortable then make those noise laughter little by little you'll get to the point where he wants you be. The reason why they say that is that they want to know his satisfying you. By you getting loud he wants you to go into it like if you were doing a roll play (like porn). I suggest first start with the dirty talk then make some noises and just start getting louder after that. You will get comfortable after and it will come naturally. Have Fun!
2006-08-17 16:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I t seem to be a pleasure for him to hear you screaming. you can scream but not very loud, you must do what he wants while doing sex then he'll be able to do what ever you want, or you can discuss it with him quietly.
2006-08-17 16:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by lolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's your style, if you're not a screamer, that doesn't mean you're not having fun right? Do whatever you feel comfortable with, but reassure your boyfriend that you're into what he's doing (if that's the case)... Generally don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, cause it inhibits you and then the fun's over
2006-08-17 16:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have trained yourself to be composed, it is very hard for you now. Speak to him about this, let him know that you are not comfortable screaming and you guys can come to a compromise.
2006-08-17 16:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just do what feels right to you. I know how you feel about the being quiet about it.. It happens i wouldn't really know what to do either... Just make some noise sister :)
2006-08-17 16:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by carm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try wearing a butterfly gag tightly during sex. You can scream and moan while you are wearing it, and you won't be able to wake your neighbours however hard you try to scream.
2006-08-17 16:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to say just imagine that a baseball bat is entering you then try to imitate the sound say oh yeAH with satisfactin faster harder etc ah,aah,aaha he will be happy actually he has a inferiority complex that his thing is small and he is not making you happy .
2006-08-17 16:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by vishakh v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on some loud music...and try to get in the mood, and be a little more louder then u usualy are...and watch his reaction....
but that doesn't mean you fave to be loud all the time!
have fun!
2006-08-17 16:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by olga z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to have it come naturally if someone is telling you to do it... so just relax and tell him to do something that will make you be loud....LOL
2006-08-17 16:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋