At frist, she loved him, he bride her, took us places, then reality set in and he would manipulate us against each other.. ok ok so I answered my own question and am no running very far away from him.
2006-08-17 08:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Run, girl! Run like the wind from this loser! Anyone who will manipulate mother against daughter and vice versa is no man -- he is evil incarnate and will make your lives HELL!!
2006-08-17 08:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lonnie P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do already know the answer about this one. However, when it comes to another man in the future.....you just have to ask, are her concerns legitimate? Or, is she just jealous, working through something, etc.? If something is wrong with the guy and you realize she is being more objective than you are, then it would be important to pay attention to her opinion. However, in circumstances in which she is just hesitant to change the dynamics of your family, you need to take charge as the parent....and be patient in helping her through the transition while you make good decisions for both of you.
2006-08-17 15:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by bluegreyii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she hates him. It may only be because she is jealous of him.Or maybe she sees something you don't(love is blind) If it is the first then bide your time she will grow up, after all it is your future. If it is the second then don't make a future with him
2006-08-17 15:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by chat_have 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you want to be involved with a man who "plays you and your daughter against eachother"? That is a sad relationship.
2006-08-17 15:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by ouisy_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and find someone that would adjust to both of you rather than play against each other
2006-08-17 15:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by imhm2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. dont do it you should have respect for your daughter more than the guy you are with, b/c if you do go on with that guy that will more than likely ruin you & your daughters relationship
2006-08-17 15:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Lyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If your kids don't like him then he fails. It just isn't fair to your kid. If he is a d!ck to her, then how will he treat you in the future?
2006-08-17 15:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Summer♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definetly don't want to stick with him much longer. Why add a member to your family when all he's going to do is ruin it.
2006-08-17 16:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by forgottendream49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you
2006-08-17 16:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should it's your daughter and she has a choice too!
2006-08-17 15:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by this_chick_4_09! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋