I never told my boyfriend that i had knee surgery. If i do he will flip out at me. I need to tell him so he won't findout by anyone else. How do i tell him?
2006-08-17 08:33:39 · 33 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He will flip out, because of the way i hurt it. He didn't want me to play basketball. Then a girl landed on my knee.
2006-08-17 08:45:49 · update #1
just tell him in the most calmest way you can if he truly loves you then he'll get over it!
2006-08-17 08:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by jamin_hot_body 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's the big deal? It is not like you had a sex change operation. It was just knee surgery. And if you think he will "flip" out about it, leave him now. Unless you are living with him or are engaged I don't see why you would worry about telling him unless he is controlling. You obviously did not feel the need to tell him when you had it done so why bother now? If he finds out from someone else, let him if you don't. But I don't see the fuss.
2006-08-17 08:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a knee fetish and he thinks yours are naturally big or something? is he a knee surgeon?
I mean, what on earth could make someone flip out because you had surgery? why would you want to be with someone who would flip out if you had surgery?
2006-08-17 08:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he flip out about a knee surgery. If you cant tell him somethig that simple than that is a problem. what is the big secret behind this. The best thing to do is just flat out telling him. the longer you wait he will feel that you can't come to him with anything. you are just makin it bigger than it really is. just tell him.
2006-08-17 08:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K, hun, here's a bit of advice. If your bf is going to flip out on you because you had surgery, it's time to move on! It sounds like he's a little psycho and a bit of a control freak if he flips out on something like that. Just go ahead and tell him, and if he does freak, dump the loser and move on to someone who doesn't have those kind of issues.
2006-08-17 08:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by chicyuna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he flip out? Just tell him or it will end up hurting your relationship. Don't keep secrets from him. It's not that big a deal is it? I mean, will it really change how he feels about you? Get it over with.
2006-08-17 08:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had sex he should have saw the scares. why would he flip out you had surgery whats the big deal if he flips out then you need a different boyfriend just tell him what does it matter
2006-08-17 08:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he flip out? ive had knee surgerys before, my boyfriend doesnt care at all.
2006-08-17 08:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by tovahh. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason that he should flip out over knee surgery!! and if he does, maybe you should find someone who will treat you better.
2006-08-17 08:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over KNEE surgery? Is that a euphemism for something?
2006-08-17 08:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a problem with you getting your knee fixed, you need to stop seeing him. If you can't tell him about it, you don't communicate enough to have a lasting relationship anyways.
2006-08-17 08:40:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋