Do you like yo sit on a guys lap? How should the guy let you know he wants you to? Just tell you? Or like pat his lap or what? When you are on his lap, where should his hands be? Consider he is your best friend.
2006-08-17 08:20:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like to sit on a guys lap if he is my guy.....and if he is my guy then his hands can go anywhere.
2006-08-17 08:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would my best friend want to get me to sit in his lap??? Unless of course he would like to be more than just a friend. But anyway, I love sitting in my boyfriend's lap. When he wants me there, he either pats is lap and lets me know with his eyes, or he just grabs me and yanks me there in a kind of playful way - which is always fun. While there, he usually has his arms around my waist. However, if this guy is just a "friend", he should probably keep his hands to himself.
2006-08-17 15:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I do not sit on my guy friend's lap. But if it's a guy I like, then I would. He can just tell me, or pat his laps. His hands should probably be around my waist, but they can be elsewhere if the relationship is more.
2006-08-17 15:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls want to, they might feel weird. Patting works, or just kind of pull her by the arm- but not roughly. Ur hands... if it's the best friend? Uhh, depends if you have a kind of flirty relationship or not. If not... you shouldn't be on eachother's laps. If u do, doesn't really matter where cuz she'll probably take it as a joke. Hope this was helpful!
2006-08-17 15:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well if he's your best friends thats kinda weird. But if hes your boyfriend usually my boyfriend would just pat his lap or say come sit and id just sit on his lap and then he'd put his hands around my stomach and his head on my shoulder.
2006-08-17 15:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by age 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to sit on my mans lap, and I know he likes me to cause he's told me, he likes it when I wiggle all around and that, and his arms are usually around me, or on my legs, or intertwined with mine. I don't sit on my best friend that's a guy, figure he'd get the wrong idea. If he pats his lap...I feel like a dog, and I don't obey!
2006-08-17 15:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just sit there if his hands aren't on his lap. Bcuz my best friend is my crush so this isnt just another scenario for me. Then once I sit his hands should go wherever he wants but a back rub would be good.
2006-08-17 15:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like sitting on guys laps. I guess you can try pattin your lap althoug that seems a little santa claus-ish but go for it. Your hands should be on her thighs but some girls get uncomfortble like that so you might want to keep them at the knee.
2006-08-17 15:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by garichick4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's only a best friend you shouldn't really be sitting on his lap. Guys have enough trouble controlling themselves, that's just being a tease.
2006-08-17 15:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Marlene 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kinda nodd your head in a come hither way with a coy little smile and pull her into your lap. If your in privacy, put your hands where ever you want. In a public-ish place, waist/hips are a good place.
If you get the urge, maybe a little back rub while your back there? No?
2006-08-17 15:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋