i'm afraid of being a father although i really want to be ..because all i think is "what do i do if i see my child's death?"its eating my brain!!!
2006-08-17 08:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You'll have plenty of other things to worry about, like paying bills.
2006-08-17 08:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jamestheflame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with begin a father. Once you see your baby he/she will take your breath away trues i know i am a mother my self. But it is a wonderful things because you will have someone to call your own. So be glad that you are finna become a father. And don't worry about anything else but raising your child to be a wonderful person and doing what right. Wait you see what i mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 15:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you want to keep your child safe no matter what, But you cannot worry about your childs death. Your worring about something that more or less will never happen. ENjoy your children you only have them for a short time before they are married or moved out. Protect them keep them safe, but also enjoy them and have fun with them
2006-08-17 15:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all find out why you are thinking that way. if you are then mentally ok. ..... enjoy fatherhood being a parent is a great thing. just dont have one if you are not ready to be involved in your childs life. children need lots of attention love and devotion. so think about it.
2006-08-17 15:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by curious2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You appear to be a worrier. You can't live on "What Ifs" You need to take one day at a time and go into the future. (With a positive attitude)
2006-08-17 15:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal! Just remember not to dwell on it and enjoy each moment of your childs life.
2006-08-17 15:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by dream girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't postpone the greatest thing that will happen to you because of a fear that most likely will be unfounded. Live for today!
2006-08-17 15:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i use to think about that too but now i have my two kids and i guess i was willing to take this risk..because what is life without love.. :) go for it!!!!
2006-08-17 15:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by jenn03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋