i am a attached female with 3 kids..just moved in with my boyfriend 1 month ago.. i currently work in the elevator industry. our company just hired this macanic that i used to date way back 10 years ago.. he noticed me and we spoke, he must keep contact with me everyday, cause it is my job to dispatch service calls. he looks so good, and sexy, he asked me to chill but iam confused. i have been waiting a week, by stalling him. i don't know what to do, i love my man, but think about him alot lately. help me.. i don't want to lose my relationship of 5 years with such a good man i have...
2006-08-17 08:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can be attached to one man and attracted to another, this is normal. What makes you an adult is that you don't act on it!
2006-08-17 08:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by st pete rn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exhibit some dam self-control and get a hold of yourself. Like you siad, you have a good man and you don't want to lose him so what is your freaking problem? Tell the ex you are not interested and to not talk to you in any manner that isnt professional. Be a good woman and do right by your man....AND yourself..
2006-08-17 15:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its lust. Give it a few weeks and you'll see the infatuation go away. Concentrate on the man you have and spice things up there.
2006-08-17 15:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Charles B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answer is right. . .it's only lust. You don't want to throw your 5-year relationship away for this guy, no matter how sexy he is.
2006-08-17 15:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's infactuation. We all go through it at one point or another. I don't think it's worth you giving it a thought about risking your relationship.
2006-08-17 15:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be u just have some unresolved feelings for him, but i wouldn't jeopordize my relationship with someone from my past because there is a reason why he is ur ex. destiny is destiny...if it was meant to be then
2006-08-17 15:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by pa_luv76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the one you have! You know that you have him,the other one you're not sure of.
2006-08-17 15:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only lust... don't do it. you'll be kicking yourself if you try to rekindle your relationship and it doesn't work
2006-08-17 15:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋