I am in love with my best friend but 2 other guys have made it known to me that they are in love with me. I don't really like them but they're my friends and I am in love with this other guy. I am afraid of karma. You know, what goes around comes around? Like if I ditch those guys this guy will ditch me? Please help me!
2006-08-17 07:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by Time goes by 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let him know, you can't go through life not knowing if something could have happen. Guys are really easy to talk to, its women who are more complex.
2006-08-17 08:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be carefull because alot of times you are just friends for a reason. Because the capability is not there for a relationship to happen and if it does it most likely will fall apart and then there is going to be that horrible tension between you to and ruin that friendship, just take it careful.
As for the other guys why even be concerned with the guys that you are not interested in? If there is not an attraction then you are going to be waisting your time and theres
2006-08-17 08:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatesyrup101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your best friend. Don't be afraid of karma! Karma only happends if u really believe in it. If you talk to your best friend and he likes you back then tell the other guys u can't like them back.
2006-08-17 08:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by angels dark ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take a chance and go for the guy you like. As for the guys that like you , don't "ditch" them but let them down easily. Take their feelings into consideration.
2006-08-17 08:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um u should tell him how u feel. dont worry about karma. as long as ur in love.let the other guys down easy. they will get over it sooner or later[ maybe a decade from , depends on how much love they got for u]
2006-08-17 08:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and go for it gurl loll and hey the thing is that you sit the guy you like down and tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way about you, there is another thing you should know spit it out to your friends how you feel about them you need to know that you must always be honest and trustworthy with your friends espeacially GUYS and you know if you do the walk then do the talk to but if your bull shazzing around then don't do it aight i can't help you there then
2006-08-17 08:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by foilole_lemez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your feelings. that doesnt mean to not ditch the other guys, but tell them you're flattered but like this other guy. try it out with that guy. if it doesn't work, no worries! you obviously dont have a problem with guys liking you, so you'll be fine.
2006-08-17 08:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u should force yourself to be with anyone u don't want to be with. just let the guys don't easy. the guy u do like, if he let's u down easy then at least u will know right away instead of pursuing it for a long time and then getting turned down.
2006-08-17 08:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by pa_luv76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me before... most likely, he likes you too. And what is wrong with being with another guy? If you dont like them, you dont like them... 1,000 guys like me but there are only a few I like. Follow your heart. Those guys cant force you to love them.
2006-08-17 08:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you love this guy? Have you gone with him for a ceratin period of time. You need to do some heart to heart thinking in your own mind.
2006-08-17 08:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋