my female coz is 17 yrs old and she is really pretty. i am 20. when we talk she talks to me, i feel she is flurting with me and sometimes i feel like kissing her. wat shall i do ?
2006-08-17 07:56:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she is my 2nd cousin
2006-08-17 08:19:34 · update #1
if she is ur 2nd coz then i guess it is ok. just go for it mate !
2006-08-18 02:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, remember that she is only 17 and therefore still a minor. Secondly, she is a relative and that is also a no-no. She may be flirting with you because you are older and more mature than the guys she may hang out with. But you have to be "grown-up" enough to know right from wrong.
It is easy to be take advantage of the situation, but is that really what is for the best. You can be friends, but not friends with any benefits. If you are good looking and mature, you should have no problem finding someone else for love and romance.
Best of luck.
Amber
2006-08-17 08:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by amber_angeltx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Salam you need to objective to physique of techniques and to renowned him greater closer,by way of fact in case you do no longer comprehend him in intensity you need to no longer love him you need to prognosis his good techniques-set and undesirable techniques-set and communicate it with him Allah says interior the Qur'an that there isn't any suited guy or woman and probably in case you dislike him,he would be greater effectual for you than you like him Your love feeling will advance once you comprehend him greater effectual on your friendship relation you could refuse him in case you incredibly have not got any chemistry with him As a widow you have undesirable adventure so which you could communicate approximately it with him so which you does not have the 2nd undesirable adventure you need to comprehend his imaginative and prescient and undertaking of his existence no remember if it incredibly is the comparable with you or no longer As a widow the suitable determination lies on your hand it relatively is greater effectual in case you carry out istikhara prayer quite a few situations heavily at night for asking Allah's practise in making your very final determination Your mothers and fathers ought to no longer rigidity you in basic terms in basic terms to cajole you it incredibly is sweet might Allah constantly bless you and instruction manual you into the superb direction Ameen
2016-12-11 10:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Supress the feeling. Getting involved with a blood relative is incestuous, and would create too much drama in the family.
2006-08-17 08:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by ninarina1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to West Virginia. You'll be amoung friends
2006-08-17 08:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if she is your 1st cousin you need to stay away. But if she is your 2nd or 3rd cousin and you both have feelings maybe you could date. But i wouldn't P.s when i mean stay away you just destroy ur feelings.
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2006-08-17 08:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her and move south...Who can you trust, if you can't trust your family.
Hope the baby doens't come out slow or anything.
Send me an invitation PEACE!
2006-08-17 09:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Taz7705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your cousin, so don't make a move on her! There are a lot of pretty girls out there. Why not date one of them?
2006-08-17 08:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by Natasha 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get over it. We all have a cute cousin somewhere in our family.
2006-08-17 08:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pervert!!!
2006-08-17 08:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by linbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋