or do u think when people are angry they say things they dont mean b/c i dont believe that
2006-08-17 07:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by fleet_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it goes both ways ... im my experience ive said things i dont mean and then i have said things that i do mean that never would have come out had i not been mad ... so i think it depends on whats bein said ..
2006-08-17 07:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by i luv penguins =0p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm angry I yell and scream and say things I don't mean. Luckily I don't get that way too often, so I don't believe their true self comes out when angry (or drunk for that matter).
2006-08-17 15:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying that a person's true self comes out when they're angry may not be totally correct. reason for this is that they tend to want to hurt or 'lash' out when angry and may say things that are untrue with the sole purpose of being hurtful.
this does not have to be their true self, this is their angry self and there's usually a HUGE difference.
2006-08-17 15:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of a person he or she is. I do not agree that when a person gets angry that's when their true self come out.
Anger is something when very few people can control themselves.................so they say whatever comes in their mouth. So U cant judge someone through his anger.
2006-08-17 15:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by Aena Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger is a very strong emotion, so it can rear its ugly head and not be a pretty thing. It releases all of our inner feelings and can do things and say things we don't mean. I try really hard not to get angry or yell at someone because I can say things that are cruel and 10 minutes later not mean them at all!!
2006-08-17 15:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have NEVER said something in anger that I didn't mean. I think when someone gets angry....the angry side of them comes out. Its an emotion....its not anger that people should worry about....its the levels of anger that determines what is going to happen.
2006-08-17 15:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of stuff comes out that's been bottled up for a while and it may sound mean, but it's their true feelings. Sometimes I have said things I don't mean to hurt someone out of defense, so I know both sides.
2006-08-17 15:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they're true feeling come out and I believe that people say things that they may feel but never say. They may mean them but not the way they say it. Its kind of hard to explain but you definately get the true person after you've pissed them off!
2006-08-17 15:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people are angry they say things they dont always mean. usually to hurt the other person so that they will feel better. it's when they're drunk that the truth comes out
2006-08-17 15:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when they get angry that is when there true self comes out.... Its happend to me
2006-08-17 15:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by *Lou* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋