How do you know if she really loves you or just loves the relief that comes from having someone who can help lessen her burden.
2006-08-17 07:45:57 · 23 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she kept asking for financial assistants... then maybe shes using u.. but when u want to help her (?) and she said its ok she can do it on herself then maybe she really loves u.. however women loves playing mind games and... i dont. so good luck!
2006-08-23 10:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've been in other relationships before so you can tell when someone is being honest with you. Just because she is a single mom doesn't mean she is of low character. If she is independent and handling her own before you came along I wouldn't worry about her only wanting you for "financial relief".
2006-08-17 14:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single mother and I hope the man I am in love is not asking himself this question. It's like any relationship you really just have to know the person.
2006-08-17 14:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by kelly_frogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont play daddy and if she still digs you, then you know it aint for the "relief" of her "burden"
or maybe a single mother doesnt need an ahole like you around at all
what a reatrded question
2006-08-17 14:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on the personality of the person that you were with. Love is a matter of the heart and Spirit and it shouldn't be taken lightly. I would say Follow your HEART and see where that takes you. If you were to make a mistake then try again.
2006-08-17 14:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by James Dean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can use other people no matter what the situation is. i am a single mother and i don't expect no guy to nothing for me. i do everything for myself, if a guy helps, that's great but i am not expecting it. i don't think it matters that the girl is a single mother, i think it matters what type of girl she is. if she is a user, she will use u no matter her being a single mother or just plain single.
2006-08-17 14:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by pa_luv76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a married mother but i know that if i was to date i would not just go for just anyone, they would have to be someone that i cared for alot exspecially if i was going to have my kids around him. chances are all moms feel the same way so you should feel honored if a mother trusts and cares about you enough to let you in her and her childrens life. good for you.
2006-08-17 14:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you trust her, or you don't. That's universal in all relationships. It's no different with a single mom. Also, if she is any kind of Mom at all, think of the trust she has to have with you arourd her kids.
2006-08-17 14:56:45 · answer #8 · answered by moria_todd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a single mother and in my opinion u can trust single mothers, we do get lonley and most the time we are lookin for some1 to make us feel like women and not frumpy mums all the time
2006-08-17 14:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by cheeky monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think shes single and a mother not to be mean but there are reasons but people can change just take it one day at a time you'll fine out sooner or later!!
2006-08-17 15:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by jamin_hot_body 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she does not see her kids as a burden with that kind of thinking you would be the burden.a woman that does not have kids can burden you with her car payments or bills get a grip.
2006-08-17 14:55:57 · answer #11 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋