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You Slept with someone a few weeks ago. Every week they invite you to an event at a club. (They get paid for having people there.) You have gone 4 weeks in a row. You said lets be friends, they know you are still way in to them and you would truly not mind being with them. You go to the event that they invited you to with a friend. You are standing not even 3 yards away form them and they are making out with someone else. You parked right next to them. And friend who sees this knows you two had something. What would you do or say?

2006-08-17 07:44:59 · 50 answers · asked by Nice girl 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

50 answers

MOVE ON!

2006-08-17 07:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0 0

Usually the 2 people involved know if there was "something there" better than a friend would, and if 1 of the 2 people involved is making out with someone else in front of you, that should prove that there's nothing there.

Find someone else.

2006-08-17 07:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by xskeptictankx 2 · 0 0

Well as a guy if you told me "lets be friends", in guy language that means "lets be friends". I know sometimes girls say this just not to scare a guy off but that is the exact reason why so many relationships get messed up. By people saying things they don't mean. Sorry if that sounded harsh. I do feel for ya.

2006-08-17 07:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by sedition_4_2_0 2 · 0 0

OMG! He is a total loser! Um...i know u might feel kinds dumb, but you know, this guy must be pretty stupid he probably thinks u are so head over heels for him and think u will run back to him whenever, dont tell him anything, because you are nobody to ask him for explenations, ur not his GF but just ignore it, then he'll be wondering why u arent on his ***, so he'll be thre first to approach u and that when u will take action and ignore him and he will feel like the piece of sh!t.

2006-08-17 07:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyDUh 2 · 0 0

Oh man, if it were me id walk right up to them and say, what ta hell is this? Well its obvious ive wasted my time and you wont be seeing me coming to anymore of your events......see ya loser! Then id never see the person again. Though it hurts you still have your pride girlfriend, and there are plenty of fish in the sea! Sorry you had such an aweful experience((((hugs)))).

2006-08-17 07:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He kinda made an a s s out of you, but you said lets be friends. Guys don't have the "maybe I shoud think about this first" thing. Move on and never tell him it could have been more.

2006-08-17 07:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by ColdHustle 2 · 0 0

You answered your own question: "They get paid for having people there." He's lying to you and making it look like he's into you when he just wanted you there so he'd get paid more. He's an asshoIe and doesn't deserve you. Don't go there anymore. If he calls and asks why you aren't showing, tell him that you saw him suckin that other girl's face.

2006-08-17 07:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Obviouslu neither of them care for your feelings, and don't respect you as a friend, so just slowly get them out of your lives, and don't look back. Don't act like it bothers you because we already know that they don't care how you feel, so..............People like that only continue to hurt you, so think about it and good luck, there is always someone worth your time.

2006-08-17 07:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Me I would cry that what I would do.
Then I'd eat allot.
Then I'd take use the hottest willing female I can find to reboud with.
And I would do all that with in 2 days.
Befor the weekend is over.

2006-08-17 07:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by position28 4 · 0 0

You should thank your lucky star that it happened sooner than later. You are being used,wake up, smell the coffee. Life is beautiful,tomorrow is always a better day. You are in full control of your happiness.Keep the faith.

2006-08-17 07:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by SPARTAN 2 · 0 0

Nothing, like you said you wanted to be friends. Obviously, he does not want to date you exclusively. If your uncomfortable with this relationship then I wouldn't take him up on his invites to these events.

2006-08-17 07:50:24 · answer #11 · answered by shae 6 · 0 0

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