my bf and i have been dating for 2 months i love him but im not sure if he's ready to say i love you? what should i do?
2006-08-17 07:44:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can say it but explain to him that he dosent need to say it till he's ready. That way he knows how you feel and is not pressured to say it back :)
2006-08-17 07:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this question tripped me up so badly for so long. There is a cute little way around doing the heavy stuff though. You could make up a word and say it instead of "I love you." You could say "I cheese sandwich you" or something relevant or funny you shared. See if he takes it to the next level. But trust me, if after a few months he's not saying it, or, showing it in VERY CLEAR WAYS, hit the road. Don't make the mistake I made by waiting for those 3 little words that may never come. Good luck dear.
2006-08-17 07:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all relevant to feelings. You can't gauge feelings on a time scale, as they differ from person to person. For some people, they fall in love the first night, get married and stay together forever. For some, it takes a little while longer. The thing is not to say it until you feel it, not just feel obligated.
2006-08-17 07:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Piscesluvr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to say it until you relly do "LOVE" him. I've been with my BF for 4 yrs. I told him I L U until we had almost 1 1/2 yrs...you're into him alot, but just wait.
2006-08-17 07:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months is hardly enough time to know if you love someone. If my bf told me he loved me after 2 months, I would think he must not know the meaning of the words.
2006-08-17 07:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling him how u feel is alwayz a GREAT thing but in this case...saying i love you can be a HUGE deal! if u tell him and he doesnt feel the same way it may scare him away...but then again maybe he is feeling the same u r and is just afraid to tell u too. gurl, if i were u i would wait! until u know ur feelings are 4 sure...and ur confident that he feels the same way...
2006-08-17 07:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats how you really feel you should tell him how you truely feel about him. Say it to him but tell him if he isnt ready to say it back that you understand atleast he will know that he is loved by you.
2006-08-17 07:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by age 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell u. I have the same problem right now... I don't love him but I would like to say it just so he knows I deeply care... I don't think I am in Love with anyone or ever really have been. People think there in love but if I was wouldn't we still be together? anywayz wat ever I'd like to hear it
2006-08-17 07:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by thought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.
2006-08-17 07:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mel7382 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she will put out, within the first five minutes i would say i love you
2006-08-17 07:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋