2006-08-17 07:44:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't think so .
This is simply personal opinion.
Blessings )O(
2006-08-17 07:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what religion(s) you are switching from/to. If you truly believe in your heart that your fiance's religion is one that rings true to you, then why not. However, if you do not believe and are only doing that because of your fiance/spouse then you should not. You cannot actively practice a religion you do not believe in nor should you have to compromise your beliefs and who you are for someone else. Anyone who asks you to do so does not love you like they say they do. If you convert to a religion that you don't really believe it will only lead to resentment later on. I realize difference in religion can spark a lot of arguments but a marriage CAN work when 2 people come from different backgrounds or religions. You just have to care enough to make it work and remember to COMPROMISE. This is the biggest thing - Compromise.
2006-08-17 07:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. Most people put a lot into their faith & beliefs and if you're marrying someone who's REQUIRING they do so then I'd probably want to re-think the relationship. I would never ask anyone to do that, especially in order to marry. I'd say if you can still love each other with the differences it's probably going to be a strong marriage. I personally know people who are Christian married to Jews as well as Muslim married to Christian.
2006-08-17 07:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by carpediem 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends how religious you are but you know love is really hard to find so I wouldn't let it go that easily.
My family is Catholic.
My aunt married a Muslim and had to convert to marry.
Not that it really matters. They are not extremely religious anyhow. My uncle drinks and smokes at times. My Aunt doesn't hmmm. But the Koran is definitely evident in the house. I'm sure they are raising my baby cousin Muslim.
My Aunt was my sponsor for my confirmation because I remember her with me at church when I was younger. I don't know if she still goes. Probably, I'll have to ask her.
Religion is a wonderful thing it shouldn't be a reason to break love apart or to start wars for that matter.
2006-08-17 07:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by trix 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
On one hand a common religion is something that's very helpful in a marriage and family environment. And for you to consider it, is very wise of you.
On the other hand, I don't think it's right to change your religion JUST for another person. You should study it, and gain a personal conviction first.
Best wishes.
2006-08-17 08:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all. If a person loves you then they would expect you to be true and if you are changing religions for them and not because they believe in it is wrong.
2006-08-17 07:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by tjnw79 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Millions have and do. But you haven't provided enough facts for us to give advice in this particular situation.
These days, and given the problems of child abduction to non-signatories to The Hague Convention on Child Abduction, I wouldn't recommend an English girl getting involved with someone from a non-signatory country. Much less changing her religion to his.
2006-08-17 07:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is great for a couple to share goals and religious views
would i change my religion for a woman to marry, no, I would find another woman unless I was convinced she had the truth
I think its important that your heart is in it, make sure you agree with the choice
2006-08-17 07:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by whirlingmerc 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Thats a very personal choice ....
I myself was with a guy that wanted me to change my religion to his .... but being non religious i thought i would be rather hypocritical supporting any religion at all !
plus u cud always say... if they loved u enough they wouldnt want u to change your religion ......
or why couldnt they change thiers ??
like i said its very personal ....
2006-08-17 07:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no. just because the person u love has one religion doesnt mean u have to change
2006-08-17 07:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Amy M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if the person they love and want to marry, the person shouldn't have to change just to suit what the other wants them to do. they should be able to be who they are instead of being something they aren't.
2006-08-17 07:55:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋