how can i look beautiful to guys if im 300lbs and 5'6 n 18 y.o?? i want guys to like me but im fat,any ideas?

Question

and if ur gonna tell me to lose weight then thats like saying that i need to look skinny in order to be beautiful when i heard that fat girls can be beautiful too but im not sure

Answer 1

First And Foremost ..You Are Beautiful And Don't Let Anyone Tell You Any Different!

Second, Look for Guys That See Past The Exterior And Take Time To Get To Know You For The Person That You Are!!
Ignore All "The Shallow Hals" Out There That Are Only looking At The Shell Not The Core!!

There Is Some One For Everyone..Your Young It'll Happen When You Least Expect It.
In The Mean Time Focus On Improving Yourself..Take Up Sports, Walking, Swimming. Join A Weight Watchers Group, That Gives You Support And Also Helps In Meeting others Who Feel Like You.
Baby, Ugly Is As Ugly does!! That You Are Not!!
Plenty Of Skinny Women Out There that Are Ugly To The Core Inside and Unlike You..You Can Lose The Weight..They Can't Change Their Core!!
Good-Luck..Hold Your Head Up And Look To The Future!!

Answer 2

Actually there ARE guys that prefer large women. But hon, really you have reached the point that your weight is dangerous to your health. So of course, like everyone else said, loose some weight. You would feel so much better. You're still so young and have your whole life ahead of you don't let weight related medical conditions ruin it. Don't do any of those crazy fad diets. See your doctor and have him give you advice on a sensible diet plan. Once you start losing some weight and start feeling better you're whole outlook will change and THEN your self esteem and confidence will grow and you'll start being attractive to others AND yourself. Good Luck.

Answer 3

If your comfortable with yourself, just put more into yourself. Men aren't just attracted to women on the physical too much anymore. You can have a great sex appeal and be big as a house. Most men look at the person inside and when that happens, the outside appearance will follow. If your not comfortable with your size, then you should consider a weight plan that's good for you.

Answer 4

Sarah, most guys are visually driven but there are some exceptions around. If ur cheerful n likable almost everyone will like you. But its a personal decison to lose that weight. 300lbs for ur height is a lot strain on u. Lose weight to be healthy for yourself not for guys or other people. I would like to help u walk lighter on ur feet if i may. Drop me a mail at [e-mail] when ur free ok. take care then

Answer 5

Wow, I can't believe you called yourself fat.

Okay, bottom line here - I am overweight as well, at my biggest (3 years ago) I was clocking at 429. Yeah. WHOA! I was unhappy and food was my comfort. But, I decided that I needed to lose weight for ME - not anyone else. So, I started eating better food and exercising - my doctor kept an eye on me and my health and now I have lost over 145lbs. I am not at a perfect weight, not even close, but I am a whole lot happier with myself. And confident.

But, off that subject and on to your question. Honestly, no one is going to like you unless you like yourself first. If you are unhappy about your weight, do something about it. If you are comfortable with it (which obviously you aren't) and confident, then people won't really care what you look like. It's all in how YOU feel.

If you need to talk, you can email me at my profile.

Answer 6

If you look around on the Internet, you can find some hot tips about wearing clothes that flatter your body type. It will give you a little confidence booster. And don't worry about looking beautiful or anything like that. Not all guys are about looks. A lot of them love a girl that's smart and that has a great personality.

Answer 7

There are a lot of guys who would find you hot, even if you gained weight. I personally prefer heavier girls, and am turned on by fat. There are many guys. To learn a little bit more, go to these sites:

Dimensions Magazine:
http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com

National Assiociation for the Advancement of Fat Acceptance:
http://www.naafa.org

Answer 8

Yes, be yourself! If someone really cares about you then it shouldn't matter what you look like! Try and talk to as many guys as you can and have them get to know the real you instead of you on the outside! A relationship should not be based on looks but on the relationship between the two people and their common interests and what they like to do together! Also be confident in yourself and that is attractive!

Answer 9

You are going to have to show your inner beauty. If you are calling yourself fat then it maybe time to start walking and eating a little better. I know it is hard to get motivated when you are depressed. Try just talking to people and let your personality shine through. When you have friends and are happy with yourself it will shine through and someone will notice. Remember it only takes one really good one. It is better to have one man that loves, respects and is there for you then have 500 shallow minded jerks who are only looking for a hot body to have ### with. Trust me if I knew at 18 what I know now I would have just enjoyed my friends,had fun and waited for that great guy instead of wasting all my time on a bunch of worthless jerks who only wanted me because they thought I was beautiful but didn't care about who I really was. BUT the good news is I found a few good ones and 1 PERFECT one. You know what they say " I had to kiss alot of frogs to find my prince". It would have been better to just wait for him to find me.

Answer 10

Hi
I am not asking you to get skinny ,all I am telling you is that get fit and healthy it shows so here goes,
If you are serious about losing weight, the calories in the food you eat should be less than the energy you use. You will have to increase your metabolic rate now, and plan your diet carefully.
Formulate your own weight loss plan and you will lose weight faster. More details available at http://tinyurl.com/m7ckx

Good luck