I have only one sister and I would do anything for her but she is a snot to me, she makes fun of me talks about how bueatiful she is and how I'm not..she is so hard to talk to the last time I tried we almost got into a fist fight and didn't speak for months I don't want that to happen again..but I would like to establish some kind of relationship with her because i feel empty like something is missing what can i do for her to understand me...She is so stubborn HELP please:)
2006-08-17 07:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by Green_Eyez:) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
..Oh yea I'm 23 not the little baby sister trying to bug big sis:)
2006-08-17 07:41:10 · update #1
I have a little sister. They can be such a pain. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Do it over the phone or in a letter so the two of you cant touch each other. That way you can say what need to be said on your side and it gives her a chance to answer. There maybe a reason she feel she need to knock you around verbaly. She may have low self esteem and it makes her feel better. I hope you two can become friends. It took me and my sister years to become friends. Once we both had kids things really got better.
2006-08-17 07:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter or send her a mail to express Ur true feelings for her. She is afterall a human being and Ur sis.
I hope that very soon the time will come when she will start interacting to U like a real sis. Sens her love cards or anything else through which U can express Ur love and concern for her. And keep on sending them with little gaps(period of time).
2006-08-17 14:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Aena Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know pushing your weight around is probably useless. It would be better if you tried to win her over obstructively. Has she been through sumthing bad recently? Behaviors change when we go through sum traumatic experiences. Maybe you could help her do the dishes(if it's her responsibility), lavish her with small but sweet gifts etc..She'll warm up. Gradually. Be patient. Good luk..
2006-08-17 14:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by boom_ady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me. She is telling you she needs space from you. Invite her to activities but leave her alone for the most part. If whe wants to do activities with you great but don't expect any conversation from her. It will slowly happen but don't push it or else you will push her away from you.
2006-08-17 14:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by tjnw79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 23 and letting some one poop on you? Blame yourself. No one hurts you without your permission when you are an adult.
2006-08-17 14:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by FatElvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋